If a friend cancels a lunch and drinks plan because they suddenly have a Tinder date, how will you feel

I had this experience with a friend and frankly I feel taken for granted. I told the person he can re-schedule the Tinder date but instead they cancel our lunch plan which we had planned 2-3 weeks ahead

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Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

sure I’d be disappointed but I suppose I can understand why she would be so excited to go out with some tinder date I guess.

I think if she did it a couple of times I would say something to her about it, but am the type of person who just likes everyone to be happy and I don’t take too much personally so if she wants to reschedule then by all means, let’s do it

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@Jenny1234 You're a team player! :P

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

@JimboSaturn well, I just figure that something that makes her happy and friendship shouldn’t be all about what makes me happy. I think when friendships get too testy they’re not fun anymore so I like to keep them easy if that makes sense

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@Jenny1234 I understand perfectly.