If a friend cancels a lunch and drinks plan because they suddenly have a Tinder date, how will you feel

I had this experience with a friend and frankly I feel taken for granted. I told the person he can re-schedule the Tinder date but instead they cancel our lunch plan which we had planned 2-3 weeks ahead

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Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M

I’d feel some kinda way that’s rude

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Moneyonmymind Yes I was upset and I did make it a point to express it. Rather than brush it off with a smile and keep pent up anger. I'm 41 - don't have much patience as I used to. Once a friend cancelled a plan because he had online exams and I was cool with that. But when I'm taken for granted and treated like an option - sorry