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To be fair, most men don't notice subtle flirting

What if she is just being nice

I got played like that once. Back in college, I had a girl who would stay up late in the library just to speak to me even when she would have a paper due. She once winked at me. Thought she liked me. Went ahead and gave her a shot. We almost never spoke again. We def. never hung out again.
KuroNeko41-45, F
[@883048,2Buddies] At least it becomes easy to spot when it's been done to you.

No, no, no. How long did you think you could go on with this bs? Did you think no one would ever notice? Don't you figure it's time to leave the toys in the closet and grow up some? Try it, it's good for you.
KuroNeko41-45, F
[@883048,2Buddies] oh its another guy who thinks he knows something about me. So many of you around huh lol.
bugeye26-30, F
i think the problem is being subtle. guys might miss the new makeup, or the slightly done up hair. the batting eyelashes etc....

he will not miss the flashing your boobs or telling him you want his D.

wanna flirt with the guy? make it obvious.
SunnyTheSkeptic26-30, M
You know those guys on a runway that signal a plane where to land? That, we need that kind of signals
SunnyTheSkeptic26-30, M
[@1095867,KuroNeko] When I was 17 I chickened out of a girl inviting me to stay the night at her home, regret it to this day.
[@1095867,KuroNeko] If you invited him to spend the night he most definitely would have taken the hint.
KuroNeko41-45, F
[@1160668,PatKirby] wasn't that simple.
TinyViolins31-35, M
It's not that I don't notice, it's just that I don't notice it until 2 months after the fact
KuroNeko41-45, F
[@954098,TinyViolins] sounds about right lol
just send up a flare,doesn't matter we're kinda taught to initiate,subtlety confuse us
Coisty46-50, M
Yeah that's me tbf. Never notice it. Need to literally have it spelled out to me
*Doesn't realise at all*
Yes please thank you very much 馃槉
This works more often than not - ask him what kind of pizza and beer he likes, then tell him you're ordering it for him. Look at his face, you will have your answer right there.
I'm not too good at it myself, sometimes.... Quite a few years ago, when I was single, there was someone at work I used to chat to about cars, music, etc and I asked him if he liked wine coz people used to give me wine as presents and I didn't drink it and the bottles were just piling up and it wa a waste. So he said he did like wine so I brought mine into work for him. He said "I'll have to take you out for a meal, in return for the wine" and I said, "Don't be silly - if you buy a meal, it won't be free wine!" It was only much later I wondered if he was actually trying to ask me out lol 馃槅馃槅馃槅馃槅
I will have one of these grapes, just one, wate, not wine, and half a macaroon
Adamski2436-40, M
The middle one please
JustcallmeNameless31-35, F
Cuz they are too busy flirting with someone else
JustcallmeNameless31-35, F
[@1095867,KuroNeko] in that case thinking who they can flirt with next
KuroNeko41-45, F
[@585989,JustcallmeNameless] up your game, girl.
JustcallmeNameless31-35, F
[@1095867,KuroNeko] nah I will just let them go

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