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You ever wonder how we only feel shame when it involves other people?

and when you're alone and do something dumb... or even "uncool", you only feel shame at the idea of others knowing

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

I wish... 😅 Tbh, I'm standing above myself like a relentless critic and judge. I shame myself even when other people say it's okay but to me it didn't reach the standard I had in mind. Then I shame others for having low standards too. 🙈

Fishy · 36-40, F

@CrazyMusicLover but would you be self judging and self critical without the initial influence of others?

I mean like... If you go back in time far enough?

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@Fishy I think nobody would. I think we copy these things from people we spend time with in early childhood.

soulrespite ·

Conditioning

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

really?

Fishy · 36-40, F

@samueltyler2 Yeah I know, I'm kinda stating the obvious, lol 😅

StygianKohlrabi · 46-50, M

easier just to keep your shame private I guess

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP

one you get to 40 you dont care about shame.. 😇

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout maybe, i can't remember.

Fishy · 36-40, F

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout But what if someone seen you cheating on a McMuffin with a Big Brekky Wrap from Hungry Jacks? 🤔

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP

NativePortlander1970 · 51-55

I think it is more that we got caught.

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