Ever find someone attractive

yeah. it’s very confusing for me when it happens, because whatever it is that attracts me usually mildly irritates me too. it’s always like that.

vibes can be sooooo much hotter than appearance

Yes, my ex wife

Absolutely

Ye. It’s annoying af

oh, yeah... something primal

Yes my reflection 🤭

Absolutely!

Yes

Of course

Yes, she was the catalyst that taught me I did not have to live in a life of extreme abuse. I was very much attracted to her when we first met. She was not gorgeous, but nice looking, but very kind. Her kindness is what attracted me to her.

Trump 🙄

Absolutely. What attracts me has always been about more than looks.

😏 Yes, not too often, although occasionally there's a ✨ that catches the 🤔 attention of this old man, again making living worthwhile, reassured they aren't all gone. 🙂

The way they move, the way they hold themselves, their laughter... The indecipherable "it" they possess... It's like a siren's song calling across a wine dark sea ..

I can usually put my finger on it. But I feel burnt out on "love." I no longer wish to be attached, logically. For me it has always ended in pain. But deep down I still crave closeness. It's quite an ugly thing.

No. It can usually be identified after some thought even if not physical

When this happens, I try to figure out why, what it is about them.

Yes
My first and only true love and unfortunately she's now my ex-wife

it's called Karisma, related to the "it factor"

The person just casts their spell over me~ Wink wink!

Yes but it's rare

We all have I think 🤷🏻‍♂️

Yes, often.

Yeah actually. For me attraction is abstract and intangible. Fleeting on the tip of my tongue. I can’t define it but I know it when I see it.

Your look is unconventional my modern beauty standards. Something about you I can’t define is hot as hell

Everyone ive ever had a crush on 🤣

I'm really trying to think of if this has happened but I can usually find the reason a person is attractive so it is rarely a mystery to me. It can be looks, a nice face, nice assets😮, the way they carry themselves, how they approach people, openness, confidence, and then a whole new set of things to like or dislike once they open their mouth. lol

Yup.

Someone on here….. she shut me down when I tried to put that out there

Yes! She was intriguing

Yes, once in particular not too long ago...it was mutual out of left field...

Hm.no. Sounds hot tho.

Been there..

Absolutely. So much about true attraction is intangible.

I find my boogers attractive for strange unknown reasons, so you are casting a wide net with me here.

Definitely

Mhm

I usually know why

Basic instinct … it’s ingrained in the human psyche

I had pop stars on my bedroom wall as a kid too doesn’t mean sh’t lol 🎷

Yes, some chicks just look horny as fuck 🤤

Yes

Yes

Yeah