Ever find someone attractive

vibes can be sooooo much hotter than appearance

yeah. it’s very confusing for me when it happens, because whatever it is that attracts me usually mildly irritates me too. it’s always like that.

Yes, my ex wife

Absolutely

Yeah actually. For me attraction is abstract and intangible. Fleeting on the tip of my tongue. I can’t define it but I know it when I see it.

Your look is unconventional my modern beauty standards. Something about you I can’t define is hot as hell

Ye. It’s annoying af

oh, yeah... something primal

Yes, she was the catalyst that taught me I did not have to live in a life of extreme abuse. I was very much attracted to her when we first met. She was not gorgeous, but nice looking, but very kind. Her kindness is what attracted me to her.

Yes my reflection 🤭

I can usually put my finger on it. But I feel burnt out on "love." I no longer wish to be attached, logically. For me it has always ended in pain. But deep down I still crave closeness. It's quite an ugly thing.

Absolutely!

Of course

😏 Yes, not too often, although occasionally there's a ✨ that catches the 🤔 attention of this old man, again making living worthwhile, reassured they aren't all gone. 🙂

Yes

Trump 🙄

Absolutely. What attracts me has always been about more than looks.

The way they move, the way they hold themselves, their laughter... The indecipherable "it" they possess... It's like a siren's song calling across a wine dark sea ..

Yes
My first and only true love and unfortunately she's now my ex-wife

Yes, some chicks just look horny as fuck 🤤

No. It can usually be identified after some thought even if not physical

I'm really trying to think of if this has happened but I can usually find the reason a person is attractive so it is rarely a mystery to me. It can be looks, a nice face, nice assets😮, the way they carry themselves, how they approach people, openness, confidence, and then a whole new set of things to like or dislike once they open their mouth. lol

When this happens, I try to figure out why, what it is about them.

The person just casts their spell over me~ Wink wink!

Someone on here….. she shut me down when I tried to put that out there

it's called Karisma, related to the "it factor"

Hm.no. Sounds hot tho.

Everyone ive ever had a crush on 🤣

We all have I think 🤷🏻‍♂️

Yes but it's rare

Yes! She was intriguing

Yes, often.

Yup.

I find my boogers attractive for strange unknown reasons, so you are casting a wide net with me here.

Yes, once in particular not too long ago...it was mutual out of left field...

Been there..

Absolutely. So much about true attraction is intangible.

Definitely

Mhm

Basic instinct … it’s ingrained in the human psyche

I had pop stars on my bedroom wall as a kid too doesn’t mean sh’t lol 🎷

I usually know why

Yes

Yeah

Yes