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No matter how much someone knows you care about them they think that means they can do whatever they want to use you or hurt you.
rayoflight · 46-50, M
@Bexsy not everyone... I hope
@rayoflight no. Not everyone
Guardian · 56-60, M
@Bexsy not everyone, but sometimes it feels like everyone!

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
That ive gone the extra mile for people that wouldn't walk across the street for me
Ashly · 26-30, F
@vetguy1991 ughh I hate that 🥺 I’ve learnt that lesson sadly
Guardian · 56-60, M
@vetguy1991 Thank you for your service!🫡
AnneCute · 18-21, F
Opening up to people who would never do the same and sharing your life with them while they stay closed hearted is a mistake and a lesson learned late
I'm not in music, but just something I've noticed


Music business is just as much about looks, style and being able to sell the person as sexy, as it is about music.

Which is why you don't see many big singers even though big people can sing just as well as skinny people
That it’s not fair.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
People make time for what's important to them.
Nobody has time for me. I'm not important to anyone
Ashly · 26-30, F
@iamnikki don’t say that 😔
Lilyb · 22-25, F
@iamnikki some people talk to you in their free time, others free time to talk to you!
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Ashly truly how I feel
Your loved ones won't be around forever. And they may leave you unexpectedly.
RedBaron · M
@latinbutterfly And you might unexpectedly be happier and better off after they’re gone.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
death happens one day
and you are seperated from your loved ones when that happens
you may well be joining ones that went before you but the ones you leave behind...-You wont see them for a while.
The majority of the things that went wrong were my fault. And I had to take responsibility for that even if the fault was as simple as “because I reacted badly to being mistreated.” If I’d maintained control instead of letting emotions lead, there wouldn’t have been as much damage.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Colonelmustardseed at the end of the day we are responsible for our actions/reactions
Wherever we’re placed is usually out of out hands
@Ashly Yes. Can’t aggravate situations and then say I’m justified.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
My uncle always said if you treat people like you want to be treated that they would do the same with you. Sadly, many times it is not the case. That mantra was true in the farming community where we lived though. People were really good to help one another when they needed it. There are too many narcissists in the world today to be so trusting
LifeIsShort · 31-35, M
People lie, even the ones you loved.
Whom you know is too often more important than what you know
@iamnikki Do people want the principal job? I've heard I'm some school they don't, because basically they're in a lose, lose situation.

But on the other hand more money...
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@sstronaut said person turned out to be the principals cousin so I'm sure it was a win win for them.
@iamnikki yup, yup... family got each other's back.
ThomReidTheBlack · 41-45, M
That being honest and hard working is just as likely to get you manipulated and taken advantage of as it is to get you ahead in life.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@ThomReidTheBlack it sure has
Toolmar1 · 36-40, F
NEVER be a roommate with a friend it WILL ruin the friendship!
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Toolmar1 I haven’t experienced that but I can imagine 😅
Toolmar1 · 36-40, F
@Ashly yep I’m loving it right now and it’s not fun at all.
People make time for the things they want to do.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@DreamyCrush very true, time can’t be replaced but it can be made for the priorities in life
Lostpoet · M
There's nobody truly looking out for you.
Umile · 41-45, F
@Lostpoet 💯
Guardian · 56-60, M
A healthy, happy, successful life is NOT guaranteed!
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
A man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Ashly That's Paul Simon, from "The Boxer".
Ashly · 26-30, F
@uncalled4 I’ll check it out 👍🏻
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Ashly Simon and Garfunkel. :)
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Being taken for granted.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Degbeme 🥺
Ferric67 · M
Life is not, by design, going to be fair

But, if I work hard enough, I'll earn much more than what would otherwise come my way
Love does not conquer all.
@Ashly You can love someone to the moon and back but they can still die a horrible death. I experienced this x 2.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@OlderSometimesWiser I’m sorry for your loss 🥺
@Ashly Thank you. 😔
eventtemple123 · 22-25, M
The people you're closest to will do absolutely nothing when you're at your lowest low.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@eventtemple123 if you have the right people around you they will. But I have been in other situations including with family.
Looks, attitude and personality can get you so so so much further than talent
Umile · 41-45, F
@sstronaut 💯 a sad truth. But. You might get where you need to be persistent talent.
Once a relationship is frayed there is no recovery
Umile · 41-45, F
@BeefySenpie absolutely none ?
Most people don't deeply care
Umile · 41-45, F
@sstronaut 💯
Not really a sad bit but here they are.

Your life is only as good as YOU make it for yourself.

Every minute that passes is time you'll never get back.

When we die the world keeps moving forwards. We really aren't important ultimately.

I got tons more but this'll doo just fine fur now 👍🏼
Carissimi · 70-79, F
In a nutshell, things are not how they seem. It’s a hard lesson, especially when you are too old to do anything about it. Life is more smoke and mirrors than anything.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Carissimi some lessons are learned when it’s too late 😕
Carissimi · 70-79, F
@Ashly Yes, and when you realize your whole life was based on a paradigm that was false … well, it’s best not to think on it.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Carissimi I understand 😔
Plasticbag · 100+, M
There’s zero point to it
Pretzel · 61-69, M
life is not fair
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
There is often no redemption or closure and the universe is completely indifferent to it.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@thepreposterouspanda that’s true
We can be loving and genuinely good people but the universe doesn’t really give a fuck 😐
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
@Ashly Nope! Makes it all the more essential that we continue to though I think. 😊
darknessprevails · 26-30, M
No one ever truly cares about you. They will always put there self interests above your own. Even your own parents.
Pfuzylogic · M
There can be more game than love.in a relationship.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Pfuzylogic in some relationships yes 😔
Pfuzylogic · M
@Ashly I have gone 3 for 3.
Teslin · M
Importance of confidence without being cocky.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Teslin it’s a thin line 😬
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
Equality is a myth
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
it is, there's people out there superior to you in every way, there's people out there inferior to you in every way
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Rolexeo that’s one way to put it 😬
Zaphod42 · 46-50, M
Everyone leaves eventually.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Many people don't mean what they say.
stay in school....
Umile · 41-45, F
Some people are not gonna mix well with you.

And you gotta live with it.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Umile I’ve learned that the hard way too 😅
Lilyb · 22-25, F
Nobody gets out alive! Live 4 now
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Lilyb live for today, not for tomorrow?
Lilyb · 22-25, F
@Ashly exactly!!
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Life isn’t fair, love doesn’t win, you can everything in the world for someone and you still won’t be good enough.
Umile · 41-45, F
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Ashly · 26-30, F
@empanadas I’ve lost a few friendships in the past because of jealousy 😔
empanadas · 31-35, M
@Ashly I was left for dead by people I once considered friends and I know someone I grew up with wants me dead just for the fact I'm doing good. One of the reasons I'm so closed and distanced to people.
Ashly · 26-30, F
@empanadas 🥺😔 I had no idea..

 
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