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Do you struggle with your own mortality?

Other than not stepping out into traffic or getting into a stranger’s car, about the most pointless thing to struggle with is mortality.

We are given limited time. We don’t know how long that time is. So live and love the time you have.

How sad to look back when that time comes and think “I wasted it.”
popmol · 22-25, M
@Mamapolo2016 i already wasted it, what do you do then?
newjaninev2 · 56-60, F
“We are going to die, and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they are never going to be born. The potential people who could have been here in my place but who will in fact never see the light of day outnumber the sand grains of Arabia. Certainly those unborn ghosts include greater poets than Keats, scientists greater than Newton.

We know this because the set of possible people allowed by our DNA so massively exceeds the set of actual people. In the teeth of these stupefying odds it is you and I, in our ordinariness, that are here.

We privileged few, who won the lottery of birth against all odds, how dare we whine at our inevitable return to that prior state from which the vast majority have never stirred?”

[i]Richard Dawkins[/i]
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Entwistle · 56-60, M
@popmol The unborn aren't unhappy nor happy as they only exist as a theory.
There is nobody that has failed to be born.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Entwistle well i mean any abortion fails to be born, or any fetus that dies before it can be born. but any "potential" children you might have had yeah no.
Entwistle · 56-60, M
No not really. I'm too old to waste precious time worrying about it.
Also worrying achieves nothing beneficial.
Entwistle · 56-60, M
@Diotrephes Worrying and mourning are different things.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@Entwistle [quote]Worrying and mourning are different things.[/quote]

So, after the sick person dies you stop worrying and don't do any mourning?
popmol · 22-25, M
@Entwistle i'm glad you avoid worry!
No. I live fully. When my time of death is at hand, I will go peacefully. Life is far too short.
popmol · 22-25, M
@PoetryNEmotion haha that makes sense!
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
Only because if something happened to me my kids would be all alone.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Cigarguy101 yeah that can do alot!
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
Nah. I have money in the bank, a place to live, and an amazing job that I love. It makes a world of difference.
I know I will die one day, I am OK with that, not scared of it. I know it will hurt most likely, but that is how things play out during our short time here. Enjoy every minute you can.
popmol · 22-25, M
@JamesBugman smart! ☺️
OldBrit · 61-69, M
I'm best described as an existentialist atheist.

So I don't struggle with it, I'd prefer it was further away than it is now but that's something I can't avoid really and I'm grateful I've got this far.
popmol · 22-25, M
@OldBrit very smart choice ☺️
no, I am not
if one abandons the fetters of the afterlife belief, and embrace that Your Life is the only thing you have.
then how you spend your shot time becomes precious
if you rely on afterlife, for with there is ZERO evidence
then your life can be squandered
for the interests of others

so no, mortality lets me know that Ultimately
I am free
popmol · 22-25, M
@SatyrService how lovely! also i don't care for the afterlife either. but i feel like i'm not doing enough with my life.
@popmol doing more,, really really helps
When I was younger I embraced it. I even have my funeral preplanned because I was sure I wasn't going to be around this long.
Now the more setbacks I survive the more upset I get that in the end it's all for naught... when I think about it. Most of the time I'm blissfully unaware of my pending demise.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SooperSarah impressive! but you can still use your old funeral plans? unless you changed your mind. i'm always thinking about my funeral plans!
@popmol I can because I'd still like to be buried back home with my family. I'm not sure what happens if that changes
RenFur · 70-79, M
Nope! I look at all the great men - and a few women (😁) - who went before me. I want to join them up in Heaven (because, of course. that's where I'm headed!)

How about you?
RenFur · 70-79, M
@popmol

Your corpse will surely rot but your soul will SOAR! Come join us! Learn to play the harp!
popmol · 22-25, M
@RenFur No sorry, i like harp but i love metal more, so i'll be learning an electric guitar in hell.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@RenFur [quote]Nope! I look at all the great men - and a few women (😁) - who went before me. I want to join them up in Heaven (because, of course. that's where I'm headed!)

How about you?
[/quote]

Which floor do you think you will get a room on in the 1,500 mile tall golden cube (heaven)?
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
No. It is the mortality of others that I struggle with.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SunshineGirl you want them to die or don't want them too?
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@popmol I am terrified of them dying.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SunshineGirl that's understandable! its scary to lose stuff!
jehova · 31-35, M
I seemingly cannot die. It keeps getting tested. So is that a struggle? Yes.
popmol · 22-25, M
@jehova i see! that makes sense
jehova · 31-35, M
@popmol yea at least i dont wake up in the hospital with a brain tumor any more that was a rough 5 years.
Hamed2218 · 22-25, M
Sometimes, I just feel worried that you never know when someone you love is leaving.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Hamed2218 indeed! everyone can die at any point and anywhere!
thenormalkindofcrazy · 31-35, M
Nah, when I reach the end of my road I'll just let what happens happen.
popmol · 22-25, M
@thenormalkindofcrazy will you take the highway to hell?
LadyMacbeth · 31-35, F
Mortality?
What do you mean?
Do I have to die?😵‍💫
popmol · 22-25, M
@LadyMacbeth i mean you can? but i wouldn't say you have to and prefer not too!
iamnikki · 31-35, F
nope, I'm actually slightly morbid
popmol · 22-25, M
@iamnikki so you celebrate death?
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@popmol check the dictionary for "morbid". Also consider that I said I'm [i][b]slightly [/b][/i]morbid
Lostpoet · M
No, I think life is immortal.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Lostpoet like every atom of you will disintegrate and fall apart and come together in other animals/humans/plants!?
Raaii · 22-25, F
[c=800000] constantly [/c]
popmol · 22-25, M
@Raaii won't you be reincarnated though?
Raaii · 22-25, F
@popmol [c=800000] I don't understand the question properly bro but I think if it means something like questioning own life or existence
So yes [/c]
popmol · 22-25, M
@Raaii well mortality is your fleeting life that can be snuffed out at any moment!
ElRengo · 70-79, M
No, not really.
popmol · 22-25, M
@ElRengo how lovely!
What?....the length of it?, the quality of it ?
Or the end of it ?
popmol · 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie all of it i guess?
@popmol well....the [b]now [/b] counts .

And at the end what we've done will count .

But in the big picture ?....I think this life is but a 'blip' in our consciousness.

I suppose it has a lot to do with what you have, and what you've experienced, and what situation you are in - that affects how much we actually think about it 🤷
popmol · 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie thats likely true! i like how you think!

 
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