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Why are some people on here so rude and sarcastic?

I have gotten some very rude and sarcastic replies on some of my posts. Similar worlds is supposed to be a place to get support and understanding not meanness. What is wrong with people? They must love ripping vulnerable people . I already have poor self esteem and mental health issues and a very sensitive temperament /personality. For example, when I said I was looking for a husband that I do feel affection for and can grow to love to help me financially and emotionally, people made fun of me.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
You're last several posts talk about gender fluidity, transgenderism, and pan-sexuality.

Those are controversial issues. You have every right to express yourself as you see fit, but if you are going to express allegiance and support on these issues, you must recognize that not everyone agrees and may express their disagreement with you, up to, and including, being attacked for your beliefs.

I'm not saying its ok, but you should recognize that you are wading into controversial territory and not everyone is going to support you on it.
Looking through some of your posts, I can see why.

You say that you want a husband to pay for your education and support you whilst you study - yet, you make no mention of how he benefits from doing all this???

A few nights at a high end brothel would still be cheaper than paying for your education and upkeep for however long you will be studying.

Nobody wants to feel like they are just a means to a better life than you have now - so, what qualities are you offering to this hypothetical husband???
it can range. sometimes its a joke misfire. sometits people who a twistedly miserable and want that for everyone. in your case it was probably the sort of thing not taken seriously. lots of people playing around with weird catfishy stuff, they likely thought you'd were trolling.

keep your head up, sport. itll work out. although maybe not as you would like
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@stound yes when we talk in real life you can change your tone of voice from serious to playful or whatever so it helps to convey what you mean. Online mere words can be misconstrued. I think that’s one reason for emojis.
Tumbleweed · F
Honestly from a previous post I seen, you made it sound like you just want a sugar daddy to pay your way and deal with all of your baggage rather than an actual marriage, which is give and take, not just take. I'm not sure which you actually want, but if it's a husband rather than a sugar daddy, you should word your posts in that manner. And honestly mean it.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@Tumbleweed Well, I'm just trying to help. There's no need to take your repressed anger out on me.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@Tumbleweed Yikes. More yelling.
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Not making fun or trying to sound rude just logical when I say that you ask for a lot when all u provide is baggage. Delusion stands out and its irony could provoke criticism.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Social sites are generally a microcosm of real life society is why.
ScarletWitch · 31-35, F
Just block them and have a closer circle
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
You have to toughen up. It seems you want the warmth that comes from a support group community. The problem is this isn't a support group. You are going to be challenged here and the sooner you accept that and drop the drama, the better you feel about your place here.
Lostpoet · M
Don't listen to them
You can't expect much from the vapid and empty. Sadly it's still not okay ...but it is the reality of online interactions. They like it better because they can hide their cowardice ...
Once bitt twice shy, jaded, liberal…

So so many reasons
Welcome to humans, where all come in a variety of attitudes@
Because they can. I expect it every time I make a post.
invisiblewoman · 36-40, F
It wasnt me
ShenaniganFoodie · 36-40, M
You are not Robinson Crusoe
Actually, andrew and nuno set SW to be a pervert's fetlife paradise, but some of us have tried to build it into a more member friendly site
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