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Are you someone that people come to when they have problems?

AbbeyRhode · F
Yes, I'm the problem-solver in my family.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
@AbbeyRhode me too
@AbbeyRhode I was for my mother when I was 13. She told me I was the only friend she had in the family.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
No, just a few of them, mostly with BIG problems.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@Matt85 i see 😇
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I used to be very much so. I was like an agony aunt on EP, and even saved a few lives over the years, but not anymore. I became burnt out, and have to put my own wellbeing first.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@Carissimi Ofc. If you can find a perfect balance of helping those and helping oneself life will be much easier. 😇
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
Yes. I’ve cut everyone out I gotta help myself rn
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@AlchemyFox 😇 nothing wrong with that.
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
Yes typically I am saving the world by just being someone that someone can vent with and not be judged. I have all kinds stop in my office during work. Im good at solving problems except my own
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@LilPrincess I can see that about you. 😇
KA9ha · 31-35, M
yes they do always ... Many times i have to give a time schedule when i will call them.for a chat
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@KA9ha 🤔 is that so.
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@SarithBorn I happen to be masters in psychology person with mass communications and labour control.
I take lectures in Nanyang Business School at Singapore university
There are [i]many[/i] people who come to me looking for suggestions.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@PhoenixPhail Is that good or bad? 🤣
@SarithBorn Neither. If I have suggestions for them, or if they just need an ear, I'll give it to them, unless all they want to do is complain so they can get better at complaining instead of doing something about their situation.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@PhoenixPhail 🤔 Fair enough.
Yes, people are comfortable being vulnerable around me.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
Yes, I am …. But I stay at home when having problems myself….
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@Soossie 😇
Wiseacre · F
Not so much anymore...I give tough love.
@Wiseacre That's the best kind. No sugar coating, no BS.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@Wiseacre At least you're being honest. 😇
Wiseacre · F
Ferric67 · M
I seem to do well problem solving where others fail
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@Ferric67 😇
ElRengo · 70-79, M
Too frequently and since young.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@ElRengo 😇
ElRengo · 70-79, M
@SarithBorn
Not something I ever wanted to. But always happened.
My friends, most of them almost lifetime ones (since teens and that was eons ago) still do it.
I should be used to but it still amazes me.
Iwillwait · M
Sometimes..
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
Iwillwait · M
@SarithBorn Cheers, Brother.
4meAndyou · F
Yes. As a general rule, I am, if they can find me. I used to say I was a magnet for those people whose problems never seemed to go away.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@4meAndyou oh no... 😬
4meAndyou · F
@SarithBorn Yup. 🙄🙄🙄
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
calicuz · 51-55, M
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
ABCDEF7 · M
Some people do.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@ABCDEF7 That's nice. 😇
MasterLee · 56-60, M
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
Aidan · 26-30
Maybe during my teen years but all my people found other people 🤣
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@Aidan Traitors how dare they! 🤣
pride49 · 31-35, M
Yes, I have a face people like to speak to, whether I want to or not
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@pride49 🤣
Yep, but not as much as in the past.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@NoGamesTolerated How comes? 😇
@SarithBorn I work more than I ever have. Long hours. They don’t have access to me and sometimes they just don’t like my advice! Lol 🤷‍♀️
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@NoGamesTolerated 🤣 Decent point.
SW-User
I used to.be like that
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@SW-User 😇
SW-User
@SarithBorn i said used to 🧐
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@SW-User 🤔
SlaveEt · 36-40, F
Yeah, sometimes.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@SlaveEt Does it bother you? 😇
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@TexChik 😇
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Certain problems. If its about money or jobs they come to me.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@REMsleep Does it bother you? 😇
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@SarithBorn No. I'm flattered that they think that I give good advice in these matters. I enjoy being a mentor or big sis role.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@REMsleep 😇 That's nice.
empanadas · 31-35, M
Something tells me you have a cat fetish
SarithBorn · 18-21, M

 
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