AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
None of them crossover because im a different person in each
With work
I work alone, but theres other people working around me and i am quiet, i stay to myself i don't socialize or small talk. I just want to do my job and go home i feel like i'm not there to make friends.
With family,
I have 2 adult daughters, i spend quality time with them and bond with them. Like i gave pedicures over the weekend. We watch movies, shop etc...its different with them, i feel that i can be myself.
Friends
I only have 3 friends all males, with them we talk about anything and everything so i feel that i can be open and honest. They are my rocks.
Spouse
We laugh a lot. We mirror each other so much so that he's the person i feel most comfortable with in the world. He's literally my twin flame. I dont have to feel that i can be myself with him because he already knows me.
With work
I work alone, but theres other people working around me and i am quiet, i stay to myself i don't socialize or small talk. I just want to do my job and go home i feel like i'm not there to make friends.
With family,
I have 2 adult daughters, i spend quality time with them and bond with them. Like i gave pedicures over the weekend. We watch movies, shop etc...its different with them, i feel that i can be myself.
Friends
I only have 3 friends all males, with them we talk about anything and everything so i feel that i can be open and honest. They are my rocks.
Spouse
We laugh a lot. We mirror each other so much so that he's the person i feel most comfortable with in the world. He's literally my twin flame. I dont have to feel that i can be myself with him because he already knows me.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
It is like venn diagram ....each circle overlaps the other.
I like things done in a timely and organised manner,from work to family.
Empathy and being part of a team (work or family) is important.
At work, I tend to be funny , methodical.
With family, you have to be considerate and understanding. I tend to be more serious with family.
I like things done in a timely and organised manner,from work to family.
Empathy and being part of a team (work or family) is important.
At work, I tend to be funny , methodical.
With family, you have to be considerate and understanding. I tend to be more serious with family.
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scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Personally, yes there is minor difference in my personal traits at work and at home.
If something goes wrong at work, I go crazy.
But at home, I learnt that I have to be calm and not blow up on things.
You can always get another job but your family is important to you.
@Mellowgirl
If something goes wrong at work, I go crazy.
But at home, I learnt that I have to be calm and not blow up on things.
You can always get another job but your family is important to you.
@Mellowgirl
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@scorpiolovedeep this makes a lot of sense...
I think though I may be different in that. I blow up at home and try and be calm at work.
It's something that I actively try to work on doing better. But I also know family know what buttons to press.
I think though I may be different in that. I blow up at home and try and be calm at work.
It's something that I actively try to work on doing better. But I also know family know what buttons to press.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
We all are different and react differently.
As long as we care for the people we love most.
I understand that family tests us but with time, you sort of get along with them.
Good thing is you are finding peace.
@Mellowgirl
As long as we care for the people we love most.
I understand that family tests us but with time, you sort of get along with them.
Good thing is you are finding peace.
@Mellowgirl
saintsong · 41-45, F
My inner child comes out when I realized I've sinned, and realized the first time as a child I've accepted that sin... Then repent from such sin as an adult! The Christian in me, the Entertainer in me, the mother in me, the romantic spouse in me, the worker in me, the friend in me. And the cat in me don't forget the cat!!!
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@Mellowgirl Yeah I'm soul deep tired and I know nobody cares or is going to spoil me. I only give and push.
Ferric67 · M
@ScreamingFox why are you not good?
Me, I'm just about done with my work day...it was a tad bit slower than usual. I just remembered about a local Greek festival, which has perked my after work interest....but, I'm not motivated to travel in that direction (it's in the opposite direction of my commute home). I may stop off at the liquor store and entice my pallet with a full bodied cab
Me, I'm just about done with my work day...it was a tad bit slower than usual. I just remembered about a local Greek festival, which has perked my after work interest....but, I'm not motivated to travel in that direction (it's in the opposite direction of my commute home). I may stop off at the liquor store and entice my pallet with a full bodied cab
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
Matt85 · 36-40, M
I don't know. I've had severance done.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Matt85 I don't know what that means about your personality.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
@Mellowgirl Have you seen the series 'Severance'? It's kinda about what you're talking about. It's about a bunch of workers who have their work mind "severed" from their none-work mind.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Matt85 no I haven't and hadn't heard of it until now. Any good?
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
Well that is kind of obvious. I wouldnt be with the church guy the same way I am with the guys at work.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Infamous607 I don't think I am no
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Mellowgirl well then. There's your answer
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Infamous607 I wasn't asking about myself but since you want to be deflective. Good night
nevergiveup · M
One is all i can handle and dont need another
Amyrakunejo · F
Ehhh...
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Very little difference.
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Very little difference.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Amyrakunejo are you sure? 🤔🧐🤭
Amyrakunejo · F
@Mellowgirl Yeah; I'm basically the same person in all four, with just a few differences. I don't compartmentalize.