Who are you really?

They say that people can have 4 different identities depending upon the group or situations.

Categorized as: work, family, spouse and friends.

If you can think about the traits you display in those settings how many of those actually cross over?

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

None of them crossover because im a different person in each

With work
I work alone, but theres other people working around me and i am quiet, i stay to myself i don't socialize or small talk. I just want to do my job and go home i feel like i'm not there to make friends.

With family,
I have 2 adult daughters, i spend quality time with them and bond with them. Like i gave pedicures over the weekend. We watch movies, shop etc...its different with them, i feel that i can be myself.

Friends
I only have 3 friends all males, with them we talk about anything and everything so i feel that i can be open and honest. They are my rocks.

Spouse
We laugh a lot. We mirror each other so much so that he's the person i feel most comfortable with in the world. He's literally my twin flame. I dont have to feel that i can be myself with him because he already knows me.