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Irritating

Why is is so hard to find women on here to talk to? I know this ain’t a dating site. It’s just frustrating when their bio says something along the lines of “love getting messages” or “let’s chat” then don’t message back. I know most are fake or their guard is up because people online ain’t always who they say. I have been using this site for a while and it continues to let me down day in and day out.

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girlslovelaura · 22-25, F

Feel you bro, if i got a buck for every time a girl ignored me on here or blocked me i'd have lots.

Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@girlslovelaura haha I could be retired by 30 🤣

Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@girlslovelaura want to message???

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

That's weird you Obviously never read my profile or about me section but sent me your needy PM an hour or so ago, right!

Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@WillaKissing I did read it! A week ago and then got into a “message” everyone frenzy and sent you one you wernt interested I moved on.

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

@Ballplayer28 If you read my profile, it said NO MEN, do not contact me, I am not interested in any man or boy. Reading comprehension must be a weak skill of yours.

GoFish ·

are you trying to use it for dating?

Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@GoFish no I’m not

GoFish ·

@Ballplayer28 then why are you only complaining about women?

Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@GoFish that’s my preference to talk to most guys will at least message back

DancingStarGoddess ·

What exactly are you saying to them? ( To be clear this isn't an invitation)

I hope it isn't just "hi" or hey there which isn't indicative of the personality therein...

Not to mention it probably is sitting there in a sea of other bland "hi and hey there how are you?" Messages from others which is something to consider. Hopefully you're opening up with something that tells them why you're jumping in their DMs and what your intentions are. 🤷🏾‍♀

Also, they have the right to choose whom they chat with... There's lots of people on here, they can't chat with everyone.

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DancingStarGoddess ·

@Ballplayer28 Gotta say no thanks atm, I'm actually getting ready to log out. I'm sitting on my bed in a towel like a jackass when I should be getting ready for an appointment. I've got to go. I hope you have better luck though. Some of these people are pretty cool. Most prefer to get to know people via Q&A first though.

Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@DancingStarGoddess I understand thank you for your time and advice.

DancingStarGoddess ·

@Ballplayer28 You're very welcome! Thank you kindly for being polite. Much appreciated.

XxBlahxX · F

Arnt you a guy who wants to be dominated or something like that

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Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@XxBlahxX or maybe I’m too upfront about it.

XxBlahxX · F

@Ballplayer28 that too.

Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@XxBlahxX lol truth be known I messaged you a while back maybe read it and tell me what you think or maybe suggestions. I’m good at taking criticism

OlderSometimesWiser · F

I know most are fake or their guard is up because people online ain’t always who they say.

You’ve pretty much answered your own question and most women just aren’t here to PM unless they’ve established a relationship with someone who’s made the time and effort to get to know them on the public boards. And even then, many prefer not to PM at all.

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Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@OlderSometimesWiser I’ll try but not sure how

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@Ballplayer28 You’re talking to me right now, opening up and having a regular conversation. So reply to people’s posts and have regular conversations just like you would out in the real world. Show interest in others, have a little humor, don’t take yourself so seriously and be patient because relationships don’t grow overnight or from popping up out of the blue in people’s inboxes.

Ballplayer28 · 26-30, M

@OlderSometimesWiser haha I guess you’re right!!!

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