Irritating

Why is is so hard to find women on here to talk to? I know this ain’t a dating site. It’s just frustrating when their bio says something along the lines of “love getting messages” or “let’s chat” then don’t message back. I know most are fake or their guard is up because people online ain’t always who they say. I have been using this site for a while and it continues to let me down day in and day out.