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My parents treated me and my bro equally.

I guess i am the husband's favourite

I am definitely the cats' fave too
@InOtterWords cats are very finicky who they give preferential treatment to, so that’s some high praise indeed!

JustNik · 51-55, F
My parents prefer me over my sister, and not that I don’t appreciate their love, but it always just felt like an icky pressure and the guilt trips and resentment from the sister have never been fun. As a result, there is no true closeness with any of them.
@JustNik I marvel at how some people are so wrapped up in their lives, theirs problems, that they never bother to ask about yours, or even consider you may have them as well.
Seems you’ve found your family niche lol
WillaKissing · 56-60
@Ghostinthemachine I thought you meant with this site or like a significant other. Friends and family are different issue status I won't list on SW.
@WillaKissing It’s however you would like to answer or not answer
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
My son and my dog. It's all I've got and it feels great.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Sojournersoul Yup. I need to remember that always.
@AlchemyFox yes you do. Make your own happiness.
@AlchemyFox it may be all you’ve got, but maybe it’s all you need as well
Degbeme · 70-79, M
My grandson loves me.
@Degbeme nothing like a favorite grandpa!
I don’t think so.. not that I know of anyways lol I’m kind of terrible so I don’t blame people 😂

Maybe my cat especially first thing in the morning when she wants food lol
@Wallflow3r I think everyone is sensitive in their own way. Some hide it, some wear it on their sleeve. Doesn’t make one a terrible person. Maybe you have a grudge for good reason
@Ghostinthemachine I def have childhood trauma, people didn’t treat me good and still sometimes don’t so I avoid those people at all costs cause I know I don’t deserve to feel the way they make me feel.
@Wallflow3r If it’s the same people from your childhood that didn’t treat you well, then I don’t blame you for not wanting anything to do with them, especially if they have not made amends
My son for sure and it feels so good !
@BloviatingBuffoon maybe the best feeling in the world 🥰
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@LilPrincess Does that mean my SW are with less too? If so I’ll never be able to retire 😭
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
@Ghostinthemachine Since I am an honest person....yes they are 😞
mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
Feels loving🥰 I love knowing people like me because I let them know all the time. Lol
@mooncrest02 you get back what you give out to the world, and you are proof of this 🙂
mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
@Ghostinthemachine aw♡ it doesn't always feel that way but its very sweet.
@mooncrest02 it isn’t always immediate or in equal amounts, but hopefully by then end, it all works out
I'm my daughters favorite person
@Bexsy that’s all that really matters, doesn’t it?
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I was the dog’s favourite for sure.
@Jenny1234 dogs are excellent judges of character
A couple people have told me I am their favorite person but it didn't make me feel any different as I didn't really believe them.
@DancingStarGoddess It must be genuine then. Don’t undersell your likeability 🙂
@Ghostinthemachine i think i'm extremely likeable, but "favorite?" idk about that, lol
@DancingStarGoddess “extremely likeable” is probably better than favorite. You won’t have any jealous people hating on you lol
Parent-wise ? No. Mom loved Pop’s looks, Pop loved her dynamic personality. I’m the kid who looks like Mom, and is quiet, reserved, like Pop.
They loved me anyway, I’ve no doubt—in spite of that. But not a favorite.
@bijouxbroussard how could they not? There’s plenty to appreciate 🙂
@Ghostinthemachine You’re very kind. 🤗
@bijouxbroussard Thats what people tell me. They say “You’re kind…of crazy!” 🤪
@Lilymoon are you sure?
NathanielS · 31-35, M
I'm my parents' favorite child.

It helps that I'm their only child, though. They don't get a choice. Stuck with me. 😁
@NathanielS being #1 of 1 is better than being #2 of 1 😁
RenFur · 70-79, M
I was when I was brand new. After 4 girls and 23 years of trying, I was my parents first and only boy 😁
@RenFur the prodigal son!
WillaKissing · 56-60
I have no idea, and I have no idea.
@WillaKissing but you must have some idea and some idea
WillaKissing · 56-60
@Ghostinthemachine Like I said I have no idea, and that is that. Being single 17 years and not dated in the past 10 years, how does that make me anyone's favorite or even on a person's radar? I surely do not know if I am.
@WillaKissing what about friends and/or family?
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
Pretty sure I’m the favorite to one person, but that rank will probably get shifted once he gets a girlfriend again. But while being that to someone, it feels like being wrapped up in a soft blanket that’s just been pulled from the dryer.
@PerfectionOfTheHeart it’s definitely a warm fuzzy feeling, and you deserve to feel that way from someone who wants to give it to only you
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@Ghostinthemachine 😞. We all do.
OldBrit · 61-69, M
I don't think I am really
@OldBrit now why would you think that?
Not these days. It’s a relief to not be put on a pedestal that I don’t intend to try living up to. Once that person’s disappointment in me dies down, we can talk again.
@Colonelmustardseed sounds like situation more complicated than it has to be
Heaven's no, I am just like everyone else
@mindlessdrifter I sense a bit of doubt. Is there someone you think might consider you their favorite?
@Ghostinthemachine Yes, I do have an aunt. She gives me great respect :)
@mindlessdrifter that’s really wonderful 🙂
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I'm not sure, I used to be. Probably not anymore.
@Starcrossed how do you feel about it, have you moved on?
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@Ghostinthemachine I guess somewhere between indifferent and maybe a little lonely & sad longjng- not for anyone in particular but rather just the feelings you experience with reciprocated infatuation.
@Starcrossed that feeling of mutual affection is definitely addictive, and unfortunately for the most part, doesn’t always last, or lessens with one person, if not both
Idk tbh. I am not interested in knowing, as I might miss it when it is gone.
@mindstruggle how would you feel if someone told you that you were their favorite person?
Plenty of teachers like me. Not my parents.
@HalfwayHouseTycoon you must be doing something right, and your parents should meet your teachers
It feels like making a difference.
@pillowprincess be the difference you want to see in this world!
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
I’ve never been a favorite
@NewBeginnings7790 Maybe you have been and didn’t know you were
Ducky · 31-35, F
I don’t think so, lol
@Ducky think harder…
Iwillwait · M
@Ghostinthemachine N9! Nein, Nada, No. [big][/big]
@Iwillwait is that a “no”?
Iwillwait · M
@Ghostinthemachine Affirmative
Alyosha · 31-35, M
Not as far as I'm aware.
@Alyosha maybe you’re oblivious to how likeable you are
Yes.
Like I am blessed.
@thinkingoutloud you certainly are, and it’s good you know it 🙂
Animals love me 🙂
Jexie · 22-25, F
Like literal favorite or added to favorites on Sw? Lol
@Jexie I mean irl. Being “favourited” on SW is a rare honour bestowed upon very few
Elanor · F
😂 absolutely not nor do I have a favourite … there should be equality in diversity in my personal opinion 😱
@Elanor even when it comes to ice cream flavours? 🍨
I'm the favorite of one of our cats. Does that count?
@LordShadowfire [b]I[/b] think it does. Cats are particular.
@bijouxbroussard My dad is our other cat's favorite. I feel bad for my mom.
@LordShadowfire being a cat’s favorite is high honour indeed!
You could say you’re the…cats meow 😸

 
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