I don't know about where you are but where I am pubs are struggling to stay open as it is. Stopping women going into pubs will kill them off. No question. Ask any pub landlord. They'll tell you. Some have never recovered from the ban on smoking, others closed as a result of COVID, not to mention the rising price of drinks and or cost of tenancies, etc Stopping women from going into pubs is a no-no. End of.
@ArishMell In Canada, they used to have a men only side and a men and escorts on the other side of some "taverns" both sides had a separate entrance and they were divided by a wall.
@HootyTheNightOwl I actually agree 100%; but, what happens when they start to fuss or cry? Will that parent get up and take the child out of the restaurant so the meals of the other patrons aren’t disturbed?
If it’s a $50-$100 dinner for two, I really don’t care. When you get up to the $200-$350 range, I do care. At that level I’m paying for peace and excellent food without the potential din of children that are too young to be responsible for their manners.
@Adogslife That is literally what I meant in my comment. If the child is disturbing the peace of other patrons, then the child should be removed until the situation calms down.
The problem is that you can't teach children that the good manners you taught them at home also apply here if you just want to blanket ban all children because they might disturb other patrons.
Not all parents are ignorant of their children - and your approach would have denied me and my siblings of happy birthday meals and the memories associated with them now that my mother is dead... on the basis that we "might" disturb other patrons. We weren't disruptive to others because we would have been removed if we were.
My mother actually invited her boyfriend's parents to join us on a holiday and they didn't want to join us because she had three children... they were elderly and didn't want the noise and bustle of children. She talked them into giving it a go... fast forward to the end of the holiday - and they didn't want to go home.
@HootyTheNightOwl I wouldn’t disagree. It’s the parents’ job to know their children. If they’ve taught their children to act responsibly, there’d be no reason to exclude them.
Entitlement, however, has changed a lot over the past few decades. I have no recourse if my meal is ruined by the parents of unruly children. It’s unfair to penalize the wait staff or the restaurant for their actions, though I suppose I could get up and leave mid-meal…
That's kind of normal in various parts of the world. Pubs around Europe or those Middle Eastern coffee shops. Places most women have no interest going to.
@Castenmas A pub good but very simple food, no pool tables and no music would be even better!
I know one and used to drink there regularly. (Not quite games-free. It has a shoveha'penny board.)
I know and occasionally enjoy another that has the music but no pool, and a two course meal would be a packet of crisps followed by a Mars Bar. (It does have a dart-board.)