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Has watching porn negatively or postively affected you or your relationship with your partner? ?

Poll - Total Votes: 29
Yes, improved sex quality/intimacy
No, degraded sex quality/intimacy, relient
No change
I am now a porn addict
I dont watch it.
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dancingtongue · 80-89, M
How about both? Not watching it, but cybersex in the old days of adult chat rooms. I learned to be more demonstrative when receiving sex. (My wife said, "the reason I never liked performing oral before was because I didn't know whether I was doing it right or well because you weren't reacting".) Otoh, on one trip where we met one of my online cybermates who clearly didn't want to abide by my ground that nothing was going to happen in real life, my wife said "you do this again, and I'm going to divorce you and trust me, you can't afford a divorce". Since she held the checkbook, I believed her.
Ducky · 31-35, F
Zero affect. I’m not interested in watching porn. I don’t know if my man is, but as far as I can tell, he doesn’t need to watch it for us to be intimate.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@Ducky Cool, good for you guys!
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
I would be interested to see how many men vs women think it has improved the relationship.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Fieldmaster Honestly, I have yet to watch a porn where the woman is considered the main audience. Even those produced by women.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@FoxyQueen That is interesting. I'm not sure how it could be classified as purely for women consumption only. But you have watched it with an interest?
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Fieldmaster I have tried. Most of it just isn't for me.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
No change. We've watched it together, we watch it separately. Our sex life remained the same throughout.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@DearAmbellina2113 that's a rare case, and I think you are lucky. I think women do not have as much impact on them as much as men do
faery · F
It's never been a major feature for me or any partner I've had, as far as I know.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I haven't been in any relationship in the years I watched porn. 😆 So I would say it contributed to a lack of motivation to enter any.
i walk around the neighbourhood with a pizza box... just in case *wink*
HumanEarth · F
Pornography wasn't never really my thing. Till a few years ago. Then my other half showed me this one scene and something inside me clicked.

I got hooked on comedy porn and bloopers

Now I look for the funny scenes and laugh my ass off
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@HumanEarth What is comedy porn, never heard that one before?
HumanEarth · F
Its like bloopers scenes from DVDs.
1490wayb · 56-60, M
im all alone, i come here to try avoid porn...enjoy chatting here with the ladies, its the only sex i get, im clueless in the real world but do well here.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@1490wayb Okay, so you engage in sexting with ladies here? Did you know many are fake accounts?
1490wayb · 56-60, M
@Fieldmaster yes everyone knows. i can tell the difference
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
My ex was a porn addict and it negatively impacted our intimacy.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
It was detrimental.
Thrust · 56-60, M
Porno is just a huge agonizing tease for most of SW. Being as it usually doesn't feature relatives, midgets or livestock!

 
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