Is it wrong for a 43 year old man to sleep with a 20 year old?

He’s a lucky man. I see no problem when it’s between two consenting adults. When I was 62 I had a 23 year old FWB for awhile.

Some women prefer more mature men, which usually means older. Being older, he is likely more financially secure than she might be. When it comes to sex, he likely will be more concerned with the quality of her orgasms before having any of his own by virtue of past experiences she may not have had.

If they both are happy, where's the rub?

I would say good for him!! He's one lucky man. I would happily date or be FWBs with someone 20 years younger than I am!!

She was literally a teenager last year, i find it disgusting. There are people with late birthdays, mine is December 30th so i know this from experience, who graduated high school at 19 years old, because they had to start late due to their birthdays. 🤮

Its legal so its up to them....when i was 43 i went out with a 21 year old girl and it never felt wrong.....

I live with a woman 20 years younger. It started out as a summer fling, but has lasted 10 years.

One of my friends married a woman sixteen years younger than him. They have been married many years.
The mind boggles what they had in common when he was thirty four and she eighteen. And even worse, when he and I were eighteen and she was only two!

Another of my friends was sleeping with a guy when she was seventeen and he thirty six. They married, had three children. She became a widow at forty seven.

Consenting adults. Sounds fun, for him anyway. Young women who go out with old men hoping for financial security from a marriage earn every nickel. Young women that do it for fun, YES!
Either way, it’s no one’s bidness.

Good for him . I hope this isn’t about you being judgmental or jelly

i never feel anything bad about it as i always looking at man's attitude and ability to be a sex partner and physical structure and stamina or living performance made me feel the choice to select partners , in my life i have my greatest sex ever till date with a person nearly who was 50plus when i was 23-24

This is a religious society. And religion always dictated the norms.

My mother was married at 16. To a 36 year old man. Yet that was the norm in 1936 Eastern Europe.

None of my business as long as it’s consensual. I know of a couple like this and I stay clear of them because the guy is very creepy.

They are both adults and seem to be getting what each other want. It doesn't matter what others think.

Yes. I did that when I was younger and I really wish I hadn't.

I don't know if wrong is the right word. All I can see is some heavy issues they each have.

Too much of a gap for my personal preference. Good for them if they're enjoying themselves though.

I wish them lots of happiness together!

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Best I can do is 16 years younger but then I'm only 34...so......

Both are adults and if it's with mutual consent, why not

Still a kid in my book but what do I know

I wouldn't do it.

If no weird power dynamic and consenting adults... that is their business.

If power dynamics or manipulation, then different story...

I mean I just try to get away with what I can lol

Absolutely no issues there....

Nothing wrong. As long as both are happy about it.

No matter what one does someone will always judge. But, ultimately, who cares?

Does he get much sleep?

Unless you’re asking for a “friend?” Why would you care?

If they both enjoy it, nobody should judge

Who cares, stop posting this over and over 🙄

If it's something she wants, everybody else needs to mind their own business

Whatever makes them happy.

It's not the best look on someone...

No it isn’t

No, it's not wrong.. but you knew that already.

She is just looking for a paycheck . 😂😂😂

If they are both single isnt anyones business

As long as both guys have jerseys for the same sports team, I don't see there being a problem with this.

Are they consenting? No problem.

No older men are just better.

No. Nothing wrong with that if it's legal in their county.

It's usually unethical but not illegal.

So when he was 33, she was 10.

Dude this has been going on for thousands of years. Not going to stop anytime soon.