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Have you ever been attracted to a cousin?

I was debating sharing this but fuck it it’s SW 🤷🏻‍♀️ I used to experiment with one of my cousins growing up while we were in middle school. It started out as dry humping then later on we would take turns eating each other out. We even got caught once by her sister who snitched of course. My mom was pissed lol I want to say it was mostly innocent, I mean I knew what we were doing but I didn’t ‘understand’ it if that makes sense. For me it was just fun and felt good and there’s just something enticing about doing something you know you probably shouldn’t be doing especially at that age. But once we started high school she wanted to keep it going but by then I was like nah it was just starting to feel weird. We were still cool and everything after that we just aren’t as close anymore. Too busy being boring adults lol but I do still think about what we used to do together, wouldn’t be surprised if she still thinks about it too.
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Buttony · 26-30, F
When I was 19 I had my first experience with another woman with my cousin. She is about 10 yrs older than me and she was married at the time but now she is divorced and we have been doing it reguarly for months
TaraNice · 36-40, F
💋💋💋
Scribbles · 36-40, F
No. I have never felt attracted to any family, no matter how distantly related the cousin, or anybody married into the family either.
Most of my extended family are a good looking bunch. Fit people. But it never crossed my mind.
Family is family. For Familial relationships. And cultivating safe healthy familial relationships. To have a home and a people to belong to.

Family aren't sexual partners.
If you want a sexual partner you go out and find one. You have the choice to not be a redneck

After reading some of the comments, I'm glad I never felt attracted to anyone in my family. I've never understood the phenomenon. In fact I think it's a very disturbing taboo.

That being said, I understand that in some countries consensual family sexual relationships are legal. So it must be common somewhere. I just don't get it, and would never want it.

I like family being only familial relationships personally. I don't understand wanting anything different or feeling anything different.

I once had my uncle in law's younger brother hit on me and ask me.out on a date. He didn't understand why I was saying no, because we weren't blood related. There was literally no attraction for me there. It grossed me out. Luckily he moved on after throwing a temper tantrum.
SW-User
@Iwantyourhotwife lmao is that your real name?
Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
@SW-User ain't no way you're asking if I was born in the hospital with this name yo
What do you mean my real name 😂
SW-User
@Iwantyourhotwife I am sorry to hear something like this really messes with you. Gaslighting affects people with the kindest, softest, and most trusting hearts. And that's truly precious. Gaslighters are some of the most evil people in the world. Any type of deceiver tbh
Convivial · 26-30, F
It happens.. Enjoy the memory
@Convivial Although my experiences weren't the exact same, I feel this way. We were kids experimenting and having fun. I used to be embarrassed because they were girls (2), but it's life and we grow from these experiences.😉I can fondly giggle now.🤭
Convivial · 26-30, F
@MoonlightLullaby good... Its how we learn and grow... Otherwise we'd still be living in caves if no one tried anything new

Hugs
SW-User
@MoonlightLullaby@Convivial I experimented with two of my friends that just happened to be girls. It was fun and innocent. I had no idea what or how to do anything at that time. But, looking back on it I was embarrassed for a time....but, a true learning experience. 🤭😉
These are the kinds of stories I miss from EP
calicuz · 56-60, M
@BiasForAction

I swear I had a flashback. 😂
So i thought this would be a little more innocent
I was going to say as a kid i thought i loved my older cousin because i didnt understand love yet and just.. idk it was innocence.

But while we're being honest, it had nothing to do with attraction to each other, but one night with a cousin around my age we did a bunch of regrettable and embarrassing things ive tried to forget lol
fenomen02 · 46-50, M
@PetalsOfLilac regrettable? why?
SW-User
Just when me and my cousin were way younger we used to run around naked .. we didn’t do anything sexual to each other .. and we still don’t speak or laugh about it to this day lol
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Nope, with all of the people in the world I could choose from that aren’t my family, I never thought about my cousins.

I live in a small town with a big family too, and it still never crossed my mind.
Scribbles · 36-40, F
@iamonfire696 Perfectly valid to block him. He was being a dick. And then doubled down on it.

Even if it was a different topic entirely it was a dick move...

Like if you said something like: I don't like pineapple on pizza, and someone went "I don't believe you! And then tried to interrogate you and try to gaslight you.

Nobody has time for that shit in any kind of conversation.

Even less so to not believed on this topic. :/
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Scribbles Right, he told me he didn’t believe me. I told him why that would never happen because of what happened to me and he said great story and then edited his reply. He couldn’t even understand the reason why I mentioned I would never see a cousin that way.

It’s like he was trying to tell himself it was okay to be sexually attracted to a cousin because he kept saying what if you didn’t knew they were your cousin. I know who my family is. Such a weirdo.
SW-User
@SW-User I did read it all, and you have dirty-edited your reply.
No attraction, just innocent experimenting. I think it's completely normal although I used to be ashamed of it. I spoke more about it further down. Great subject matter and I'm sure others were relieved they weren't the only ones.🌟
Silentpleasure · 31-35, F
RedBaron · M
No. I am not a redneck.
SW-User
Nope, I only had one male cousin much older than me.
jennyCook · 22-25, F
Yes and I have actually been with her
Bigcitygirl · 22-25, F
Can safely say no!
bartender · 36-40, M
Been there done that
Lilymoon · F
Ummm no they are cousins not potential boyfriends 😝
calicuz · 56-60, M
I think it's absolutely normal to be physically attracted to a cousin, and both find each other attractive.
I also think it's normal to be sexualy attracted to a cousin, but the line should not be crossed.
You did what you did and there's no going back and changing anything. The two of you were very young and "experimenting," and I'm certainly not going to judge you.
Spectra · 26-30, F
@calicuz I appreciate that
I haven't, but as long as you don't produce offspring, there is no real danger other than judgement. If you both enjoyed it, who am I to disapprove it as a stranger? 🤷
Josh1454 · M
It happens quite frequently all ways. G/g, b/b and g/b.
SW-User
@Josh1454 This was my favorite answer so far.
I'm sure she still thinks about it too. You should try to reconnect with her.

Yes, I had several sexual encounters with a few of my girl cousins as kids and teens. And it ranged from everything from kissing sessions to all out intercourse and everything in between. Nothing was ever forced, it was curiosity and exploration of new and exciting feelings that drove us to doing these things. Although I had had previous experience since my older sister had started molesting me at an early age.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
Yes.

Distant cousin.

Never acted on it.

But yeah.

Thought he was a good good guy.

But I guess men are men.
When I was very young (about 10) my cousin who was about 13 or 14 and I used to dry hump each other. I remember that was so fun.

It started out because she wanted to practice kissing. So we were kissing each other but then one day she said, "do you want to do something really nasty? get on top of me". So I got between her legs. We still had our clothes on though. We didn't cross that line although I tried. However, I wasn't as bold at 10 years old as I am now.

We never brought it up later. We pretended like that never happened.

I consider this a nice memory. I think she is married with kids now.
DaveyTaco · 31-35, M
i have never, no.
SW-User
Since this is SW, I’d hate to disappoint you
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User thank you for posting this,
Emotional attraction yes. Sexual attraction no.
Pfuzylogic · M
Taboo can do that.
Sorry to hear that you aren’t as close now.
Spectra · 26-30, F
@Pfuzylogic It’s not a bad thing. I’m not close to a lot of ppl anymore but still talk every now and then
Pfuzylogic · M
@Spectra
That is good that you still connect.
My mother wasn’t ever home after she took us from the custody of an abusive father. My wrestling with a female relative turned sexual also.
Having extra time, unmonitored, being with someone like yourself, easily leads to sexual contact.
We all experience all kinds of things. Everything can help us grow and evolve…
MrGomco · 36-40, M
Yes, always, but I didn't had anything with them.
pdockal · 56-60, M
Why did becoming an adult stop you ?
Spectra · 26-30, F
@pdockal I just stopped being close to ppl in general the older I got, just had a lot of my own stuff going on
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Spectra

Your still very young !
smiler2012 · 61-69
{@spectra] 😆i have heard the term kissing cousins but this maybe taking it a litte too far perhaps lol
Spectra · 26-30, F
@smiler2012 Oh I agree 😂
PassingThrough · 46-50, M
Wasn’t attracted to her but when we were little kids my cousin and I showed off each other’s privates once. Nothing too crazy happened from it since we were in single digit years. The only thing I remember is I ended up hard from the rush of showing off to her and she thought it was funny to push my cock down and watch it shoot back up again lol
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I`ve never had any real attachment to my cousins.
DragonFruit · 70-79, M
When I was in my 20s, my then boyfriend "introduced" me to my cousin at a gay club. We both laughed and told him that we were cousins. I later told my boyfriend that I'd had a crush on my cousin for a while.
We got into a threesome relationship for a short time, but it didn't work out.
turbineman40 · 80-89, M
@DragonFruit That threesome must have been a fantasy for you
nameless1 · 36-40
I have 4 hot male cousins. But they are related so there is no way in hell that i would do anything except party with them. That's all.
turbineman40 · 80-89, M
Have you ever asked this person, recently about your activities earlier? She might surprise you with her answers
Spectra · 26-30, F
@turbineman40 Not really lol I just don’t really have a big urge to relive it
IWasCallingYaLarry · 31-35, M
Uhhh noooo. I can't say I have. Have I been in love with a friend who already had a boyfriend who wasn't me? Sure. But cousin? No. Most of my cousins are dudes, anyway and I'm not gay. I only have 4 female cousins, everyone else is a dude lol.
SW-User
Everyone. EVERYONE has at least one hot cousin.
coolnudist · 70-79, M
Yes when I was a teen!
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
I lost my virginity to a girl who reminded me of my cousin . It wasn’t weird at all . (Her resemblance that is ).
SW-User
When I find out they’re my cousin does that mean she’s less pretty?
Spectra · 26-30, F
@SW-User Probably not if you didn’t realize it before hand
fenomen02 · 46-50, M
...I still am...!
mayguy · 51-55, M
Yes, in my case she was a smoking hot step-cousin, so not even a blood relative. She got my teen loins on 🔥🔥🔥 lol
Never was able to do anything about it as they lived too far away.
Huckleberry42 · 46-50, M
bustyyylover · 36-40, M
Well, cant think of any cousin in particular but Aunt - Hell YES
Eww... No way, Jose!!! 🤢🤢🤢

As fucked up as I was - even at that young age, I knew what my family would grow into.
SW-User
Yes growing up every wednesday was called Hump day cousin orgy time..

 
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