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Guys: What's one thing about women that you don't really understand? Sexually or otherwise? 🤦🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️

Don't be shy to ask and nothing is off-limits! :)
Questions are never stupid - even the ones like "Does No means Yes or No?"
I just treat them as human. It helps me understand them as much as anyone else. Although I think they often have much prettier clothes. That is something I don't understand. But that is more a gender marketing issue.
[@774925,iamkaira] lol I actually do check out women's clothes sometimes. I have a pair of comfy pink pj's that are actually women's. But they are pretty so I got them. The sizes tend to run smaller though but they fit if I go up sizes. Also I have missed you on here🤗
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[@406636,causernamebemyusername] that's really cool <3 aww well i am glad to be back then :3
[@774925,iamkaira] *hugs and snuggles you*
Dainbramadge · 51-55, M
I really have such a hard time trying to figure out the issue with trying to decide where to eat.
Or the loaded question of " does this make me look fat ?".
Why would you ask a question that has no right answer?
Why would you buy a nice dress only to wear it once??
Why do women think men never listen?
Why do women think men think about sex all the time??
Why do women wear stuff that shows cleavage and then complain when we look?
Why are women so fascinated with being considered pretty to other people, men if they are honest, even when they are in a relationship?
Why are women upset to be seen as a sex object when they dress sexy??
Dainbramadge · 51-55, M
[@774925,iamkaira] WOW!!! These are incredibly great answers.
I will have to admit I do think about sex a lot and yes romantic thoughts include, if not exclusively, sex.
I personally love when women dress sexy. Another admission is I always think I have a chance with them even if they are in a relationship.

Thank you for taking the time to address all of these questions. You were very concise and I feel I do actually understand these issues better.
Hell I may actually understand the entire female machine now. :-)
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[@116327,Dainbramadge] Aww thank you for being very sweet <3 I am glad I could help you know us a lil bit better :)

I actually enjoy answering questions especially around sex, gender and other related stuff so feel free to ask any more - no matter how silly, trivial or tiny they might be <3
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[@116327,Dainbramadge] Oh and btw, girls actively do put themselves out even when they are in a relationship to feel attractive and wanted like i said before so don't ever feel its wrong to want someone even when they are in a relationship. It's perfectly a natural response to our behavior is my opinion on it :)
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Women is fully a question mark in herself.
We guys can't understand them
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[@774925,iamkaira] Hey thankyou
Nice to meet you kaira
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[@986057,Bigman] sure thing - you can still ask me anything you like you know :)
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[@774925,iamkaira] Ok if you want to message you can message me back
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Message mein poochh lun to chalega? Yahan poochhne mein sharam aati hai...
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[@774925,iamkaira] haha...really? Anyways, tumhare sath honge to yakeen rahega ki I am in safe hands, shayad tum judge nahi karogi...
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[@367220,daydreamer] true that <3
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[@774925,iamkaira] Thanks...waise pehli baar to bas tumhare badan ko dekhte hi reh jayenge...aur touch kar ke feel karenge....ungliyon se faila ke dekhenge....hothon se bhi feel karenge....
midnightsun · 22-25, M
A woman's love.

If they love a criminal then they'll do anything for that guy.
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[@854020,brokenswordsandshatteredshield] oh yeah that's true - well i guess idk why we or well why do it myself - why do you think we do it?
midnightsun · 22-25, M
[@774925,iamkaira] brain rewiring from ancient days.

Attraction towards risk.

Women don't take risks but are attracted towards it.
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[@854020,brokenswordsandshatteredshield] but isn't being with someone like that taking a risk?
RemovedUsername350320 · 26-30, M
How a person with one pair of feet can need 8000 pairs of shoes
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[@350320,JohnnyFartpants] well cause its important to be pairing shoes with clothes or the occasion - we find it weird how men just trust everything on those one pair of shoes and get away with it 🤷🏻‍♀️
Classified · M
How can they participate in multiple conversations at the same time? 😶
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[@444927,Classified] it's okay i am a good mix of nice and evil
Classified · M
[@774925,iamkaira] 🤔🤔🤔
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[@444927,Classified] 😈😇
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
So many women I have encountered, instead of asking for a sit down to discuss a problem, become impossible to live with and irritable(in a passive-aggressive way), forcing me to ask, "What's wrong?". So much more drama and work and impedes communication....why do so many women behave so childishly?
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[@329500,uncalled4] cause we are emotional little beings - for us emotions precede logic and every emotion i personally feel is heightened compared to men - it doesn't help us think clearly and kinda makes us super dumb and silly at times.

i've heard a lot of people say that women make better ceo's cause they can balance and think well but i suppose they probably are really good at it or they've just learn it shut it down somehow - most women i know are pretty high on the behavior you just explained.

it's impulsive and there's really no thought or planning to it - it just happens and personally i feel really stupid and silly by the end of it
BlueVeins · 18-21
I still don't understand how women tolerate wearing makeup. In my experience, wearing makeup is a miserable exercise in triviality and carefulness. That shit gets everywhere if you're not thinking about it.
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[@4199,BlueVeins] cause it matters - makeup, the right kind of clothes and shoes - visual appeal makes for a lot of things, it makes us feel confident, it covers our flaws, it makes us feel desired and powerful - i know that if i am pretty, i can nail down any guy i want unless he's just not looking for some. So yeah why shouldn't i work it out? :)

it takes a while getting used to it for sure but then after a bit it's like your normal self. if you work at a place that requires you to wear a badge or an ID, you'd relate to this - cause after having worked for months or years, if you forgot your id someday, you'd feel a little lost without it right? like you know there's something supposed to be there usually but it feels just odd without it..

that's kinda how make up tends to feel like after you're into it and you get used to avoiding it from smudging up or being pretty careful on not getting it on stuff - it's almost second nature to avoid anything that might spoil it especially if you get the good quality ones then you'll hardly mess up cause they come with benefits of being smudge proof or water resistant
luctoretemergo · 61-69, M
For me...ignorance is bliss.
I know enough but the things I don’t know about women...you can keep your secrets(especially the sexual ones),
The adventure is trying to find them out ...
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[@910835,luctoretemergo] okay ^^
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
The need to talk everything to death. I find that personal reflection in solitude leads to resolving internal issues far more often.
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[@626983,dancingtongue] 🙊 aww okay
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
[@774925,iamkaira] Dontcha want to talk about it? 😳
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[@626983,dancingtongue] hehe i didn't you would've wanted to! 😛
Dan88411 · 31-35, M
I would like to know why some women just keep it in and don't say anything when something is bothering them. That's been my experience, at least.
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[@940086,Dan439] well personally i do it cause i don't think it's something to be worried about enough to trouble others - but then it kinda explodes out anyways 🙈
Tobyx9 · 56-60, M
How most of them have used me for money or to fix things, and used flirting to get what they wanted . But push you away when you try to flirt back.
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[@1016574,Tobyx9] i'll tell you this, it's never like a girl isn't well aware of what she's been doing - so if someone acts innocent later on that's just feigning and being silly

now i amn't too sure of why we do it but i have my reasoning and that it is an impulsive behavior which can be controlled but then it just seems easier to give in - maybe it's societal upbringing or biological but it's always been men who do and earn and women who support and provide back in return - so naturally we try to think of how a man can help me out and try to gain his trust and attention for it to be easier for me.

i do know that its heartless and unfair but in my head somehow i just reason to myself he'd do it if i asked him anyways cause i am a girl and i am pretty and who would say no to me - i know that's wrong but i also know it works and well i'd rather get my end of the job done somehow

i'll admit i have done this and have also done sexual things for favors - to an unfair advantage as well i might add - so i am no less better than any other hoe there is
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[@844150,nerdboss96] you know what's funny? even if you ran into a wall with a full on raging hard on you'd either hit face first or belly first
Sleepwalker · 41-45, M
That one week before their period starts... Ahh.
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[@641605,Sleepwalker] yeah i mean i guess most men dislike the week of rather than the one before right?
Sleepwalker · 41-45, M
[@774925,iamkaira] you know the week before is a little bit... how to say... full of emotional ups and downs, while the first week... is much more calm. :)
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[@641605,Sleepwalker] ah okay - i am kinda like that during the week itself - the week before i am just jittery
StevetheSleeve · 26-30, M
Why do so many women fake an orgasm?
StevetheSleeve · 26-30, M
[@774925,iamkaira] You make good, hot points. Lol.
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[@487145,StevetheSleeve] hehe well i am a prostitute, gimme some credit for knowing my men and sex <3
StevetheSleeve · 26-30, M
[@774925,iamkaira] Lol. Sorry I didn’t check your profile. And rate sheet I guess.😆
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Women are fickle. That’s all they need to know.
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[@11509,Keepitsimple] true that - we are pretty emotionally charged up and sometimes logic isn't as important as how we feel - hence the fickleness
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
[@774925,iamkaira] Not only that but I may be pissed about something not even having doing with him but I’m over it in 5 minutes so stop causing problems cause your wild hair up your ass is itchy.
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[@11509,Keepitsimple] 😅 haha this actually!
MrGoodbar · 46-50, M
Do women check out a guys bulge like men check out a woman's chest?
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[@18103,MrGoodbar] yeah we do
MrGoodbar · 46-50, M
[@774925,iamkaira] I figured, i always seem to get a pause from the ladies
ncgremlin · 56-60, M
Are women into sex just as much as men?
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[@941081,ncgremlin] yes and more in some cases but yeah i'd definitely say yes to it - there are exceptions in every kind though but those are just given in any case
ncgremlin · 56-60, M
[@774925,iamkaira] cool
Wittleone · 26-30, M
Why they make such a big deal about small penises...
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[@902150,Wittleone] cause they are silly and cuute - plus they aren't man like at all - i mean how in the world are you even a grown up?
Wittleone · 26-30, M
Oh so it’s cute? I suppose you’re right. I mean mine looks like a peanut. 😐[@774925,iamkaira]
AlienZipper · 61-69, M
I'll think about it and let you know 👍
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[@327859,AlienZipper] okay - looking forward to your question/thoughts!
MentorDaddy · 56-60, M
No often seems to mean yes
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[@1013284,MentorDaddy] <3
Pdad49 · M
Do women enjoy being pregnant?
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[@568309,Pdad49] a lot actually - you would think the prospect of pushing out a human from our bodies or carrying it around for 9 months isn't really easy or funnily delightful but there are other aspects that actually make being preggo and especially getting preggo real fun <3
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
What does a woman really want from a guy? And why won't they just say what they want?

And, yes, I know that's technically two things, but given that women are more complicated than computers, I should get an extra question. 🙄
proudmartikahooker · 31-35, M
Long time we haven't chatted? How are you? If you get free time come to pm... I will wait for you.. Take care love

 
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