Guys: What's one thing about women that you don't really understand? Sexually or otherwise? 🤦🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️

@Dainbramadge hehe alright let me take them one after another shall we?

[b]trying to decide where to eat[/b] - idk it's just we second guess you know like we try to think what's yummy but then a lot of stuff is and then what if A is better than B in this restaurant - or well I haven't ever tried C - should I try it? what if it'll make me fat? so many questions

Guys I am with usually decide for me cause they know it's no use asking me - so they order stuff for me and if I don't finish what I get to eat well they kinda punish me for it laters - which is kinda pretty much always 🙈 cause i am kind of a picky eater no matter what - except for dessert! 😋

[b]does this make me look fat?[/b] - well just tell her then - it's really not a loaded question - we just genuinely wanna know what you think and it's important to us - we spend a great deal of time trying to look great for you guys so a little tip or advice is useful.

Sure maybe sometimes we'll feel a little annoyed but that's just because we don't wanna feel fat especially if its one of our favorite dresses - but that doesn't mean you just avoid the whole thing - cause the other girls will talk and we'll know and then we'll be much more super mad at you for not telling!

[b]Why would you buy a nice dress only to wear it once[/b] - well cause it just fits that occassion and theme perfectly - but it might not fit any other time soon - plus wearing the same thing over and over if its not for work is a little boring isn't it - i mean the others would think i don't have any clothes!

if i didn't really think i'd wear it more than once i'd rather just rent a similar dress or not buy it - but i definitely think i'll wear it more than once if i am buying it - it's just it's a niche dress - i can only wear it for occasion A and that only comes like a couple of times a year - but this is the right one! it has to be this dress only!

[b]Why do women think men never listen?[/b] - cause you don't - we tell you one thing so many times but you still end up doing what you want to do cause you think you're right - and then you'll know we were right all along. See? you don't listen do you?

[b]Why do women think men think about sex all the time?[/b] - well cause you do think sex most of the time atleast - most ideas of romance for men include sex one way or the other or involve something leading to sex at least - be honest - have you not really thought about it ever like that?

[b]Why do women wear stuff that shows cleavage and then complain when we look?[/b]
okay well i am kinda exception to this thing lol cause i do encourage - but that's just because of who i am - and i guess i honestly don't get the other girls either on this - i am an exhibitionist and pretty much into sex a lot so i don't really shy away from either showing my cleavage or appreciating being complimented about it <3

[b]Why are women so fascinated with being considered pretty to other people, men if they are honest, even when they are in a relationship?[/b] - cause it makes us look elusive and a pretty catch - it's like being vied for being attractive but unattainable - its safer that way cause most men wouldn't mess around knowing we are owned but also be complimented and get all that attention - also cause men are pretty lousy at giving that attention when they know they've got the woman 😅

[b]Why are women upset to be seen as a sex object when they dress sexy??[/b]
again like before on the cleavage thing - i don't get upset - but also i have my theory about this and its just that us women don't really know what we want sometimes and are pretty confused cause we know we want it but we are also kinda scared to show it - i have known girls who do it cause they wanna be a sex objected - be lusted after and taken over in an ideal world but also kinda know reality is kinda scary that way - not everyone is really brave enough to jump into the rabbit hole and see how far it goes - but when she's comfy with the guy, she'll explore it all out that much more

@SW-User WOW!!! These are incredibly great answers.
I will have to admit I do think about sex a lot and yes romantic thoughts include, if not exclusively, sex.
I personally love when women dress sexy. Another admission is I always think I have a chance with them even if they are in a relationship.

Thank you for taking the time to address all of these questions. You were very concise and I feel I do actually understand these issues better.
Hell I may actually understand the entire female machine now. :-)

@Dainbramadge Aww thank you for being very sweet <3 I am glad I could help you know us a lil bit better :)

I actually enjoy answering questions especially around sex, gender and other related stuff so feel free to ask any more - no matter how silly, trivial or tiny they might be <3

@Dainbramadge Oh and btw, girls actively do put themselves out even when they are in a relationship to feel attractive and wanted like i said before so don't ever feel its wrong to want someone even when they are in a relationship. It's perfectly a natural response to our behavior is my opinion on it :)