Guys: What's one thing about women that you don't really understand? Sexually or otherwise? 🤦🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️

@midnightsun you mean like the attraction towards the bad boy stuff and how they are okay with it as long as he loves her?

@SW-User both

I know how their minds work but I don't know why it works like that

@midnightsun well to be honest i don't really know the answer to that - but i do know that it's real and it's true and i've been there as well - falling for the bad boy charm over and over - in fact if i really trace down all the men i've ever felt attracted to it's almost always been ones who were either abusive or just harsh with me

it's weird cause even while i was dating one of the few nice guys i've been with - probably the only nice one - i cheated on him multiple times and ended up falling in love with a guy who used to be his bully from school - things got a lot different after it came to light and it's a whole other story by itself

why did i do? idk i just had a curiosity and thrill, it just felt like there were sparks there and it made me feel a lot more needy for it - every guy like that used me, demeaned me and treated me like a pet but it made me feel insanely good - and i felt really protective and devoted to them as well - even if my mind tried to rationalise it my body would just give in - like really really hard and every time i'd be touched or called out i'd just go blank and silly and gurlish delight would just overtake me

@midnightsun [quote]If they love a criminal then they'll do anything for that guy.[/quote]

They have low selfesteem...They fall for the lowlifes because they feel like lowlifes themselves, its why they take abuse from bad boys and stay with the guy, they feel like they deserve it

@Tminus6453 that's kinda true as well - i guess girls who don't have low self esteem are usually like posh little bitches or just confident women - most girls tend to have self esteem issues regardless of who they are or where they are from and tend to fall for this

@SW-User makes sense, woman.

@midnightsun what do you mean by that? 😅

@SW-User you didn't answer my question exactly but your response validated my initial thoughts about female attachment

@midnightsun oh yeah that's true - well i guess idk why we or well why do it myself - why do you think we do it?

@SW-User brain rewiring from ancient days.

Attraction towards risk.

Women don't take risks but are attracted towards it.

@midnightsun but isn't being with someone like that taking a risk?