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Aysel · F
It depends on who they are in your life; it's easier said than done when you are a family member, a friend, or even a romantic partner. If this is the case, move yourself away gradually, although usually they won't even care that you left their lives because most narcs aren't even aware they are the problem.
bittersweethermit · 36-40, F
@Aysel You took words out of my mouth
Ducky · 31-35, F
You don't. You gtf out of there, pronto.
Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
Just leave. Imagine trying to deal with a venomous snake who bites people
Would you try to find ways to explain to it not to bite you? Or do you keep your distance?
Treat them like that
Would you try to find ways to explain to it not to bite you? Or do you keep your distance?
Treat them like that
deadteddy · 26-30, F
@Iwantyourhotwife Well said
Perry1968 · M
You really just cant. Even therapists i know cannot help them as they dont see any issue.
bittersweethermit · 36-40, F
@Perry1968 This. It's the manipulation and victim mentality tactics that they pull that's why therapy don't work on these people
Zaphod42 · 51-55, M
My mother is a malignant narcissist. We haven’t spoken in roughly 20 blissful years
SW-User
You cut them out. There isn't room for that..
SW-User
No contact, or minimize contact. The less you interact with them, the better. The key is to avoid being manipulated or victimized by them.
bittersweethermit · 36-40, F
@SW-User I'm trying to avoid them but it only increased their narcissistic rage, and he's getting back at me by trying all he can to get on my nerves right now.
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
Ignore them. Cut them from your life whenever possible.
matthewjames · 18-21, M
first can you tell me what that is?
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Deceased · M
Don't give them the attention they crave.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Understand them.. And this is simpler than you think. In fact Gamers already have it down. The Narcissist is the first person player in the game.. Everyone else is just an NPC. To be used, scored from or pushed aside.. Thats everyone else..Some NPCs are more useful than others or worth more points. But they are still NPCs. Never forget that..😷
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
Stay calm and let them vent
Ferric67 · M
i'm great at ignoring
SW-User
Not anymore
Ignore
ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M
Put 'em on the last train to Blocksville
Ask a mental health professional
Bleed them dry.
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MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
I don't
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Not to be flippant, but all narcs = away.
bittersweethermit · 36-40, F
@uncalled4 That makes a lot of sense
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
lick their eyebrows
Completely cut them out of your life, then watch how fast they blame you.