If you miss them, why don’t you reach out to them?

If you can find them and if they remember you and if the memory of you is good and if their life hasn't hit the guard rail, rolled the car, burst into flames and left them markedly changed by the experience from the person you remember, and if they don't have a paranoid partner with aggressive/violent behaviour demanding to know who the person contacting their partner is when they never knew about them before now....

I dont miss them that much

Penicillin ain't cheap.

hmmmm maybe we did?

Because I won't go back to the heartache. Even though I miss him I'll always protect my peace and keep moving forwards.

If you miss them a lot then you need to carry more ammunition.

In my case the one I want to reach out to is no longer on the planet.

1. Don't know where they are.
2. Some are dead when I found them.
3. Which of the above is more depressing?

Because in all honesty, too much time has passed.

They are either in Heaven or Hell?

Because he doesn't come here anymore... 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀

restraining order 💔

Dead

No point really. The version of them that I miss isn't there anymore.

Because it just makes things more painful for both of us

I did and was ignored.

They're dead

Right! Let them hide. Twenty, thirty, thirty five Christmas calls and it was never a good time? Seriously. Leave family to rot.

1. Don't want to go through anymore of their bullshit that comes along after the good times inevitably stop.

2. Old and wise enough to know that loving someone from afar IS ok and necessary sometimes.

3. Because, Fucking NO. 🤨

4. Because we aren't who we were then and simply too much has come to pass for us to go back now.🤷🏾 Nostalgia about those times is enough

5. Because I suck at reaching out first and part of me is a little afraid they might not miss me back...

I don’t think they’ll be able to have an honest conversation with me

They have made it clear that they are not interested.

Didn’t answer back.

EGO

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