DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Must ask again. What do you mean by "love"?
Greeks have nine forms of love alone.
So if you mean romantic love, once again. What types of romantic love? Intimacy perhaps? Friendship? Empathy? Lust? All of that? 🤷🏻♂
Lust can be immediately by either gender even. I've seen it in women. And some women have seen it in me. 🤣
Usually the more honest women. That can empathize.
If you can't see it in yourself, you're not likely to recognize it in others. And that is gender non specific.
Greeks have nine forms of love alone.
So if you mean romantic love, once again. What types of romantic love? Intimacy perhaps? Friendship? Empathy? Lust? All of that? 🤷🏻♂
Lust can be immediately by either gender even. I've seen it in women. And some women have seen it in me. 🤣
Usually the more honest women. That can empathize.
If you can't see it in yourself, you're not likely to recognize it in others. And that is gender non specific.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@DeWayfarer What are those forms of love? I know of only two - parent/child love, and adult romantic/sexual/intimate love.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@zonavar68
Must say Agape, because of the Catholic Church, once redefined it to mean the love of God, when it applied to all Greek deities.
This was long after Christ even supposedly existed. 4th century CE.
Please remember that Zeus himself had Eros (the type of love) for his daughter Persephone and a child as well... Dionysus. Ancient Agape applies to that type of love. It's ALL inclusive.
Also Xenia is a relatively new type of love. More used in modern Greek. See psychology Xenophilia and Xenophobia.
All three apply to strangers.
Nine types of Greek love
Must say Agape, because of the Catholic Church, once redefined it to mean the love of God, when it applied to all Greek deities.
This was long after Christ even supposedly existed. 4th century CE.
Please remember that Zeus himself had Eros (the type of love) for his daughter Persephone and a child as well... Dionysus. Ancient Agape applies to that type of love. It's ALL inclusive.
Also Xenia is a relatively new type of love. More used in modern Greek. See psychology Xenophilia and Xenophobia.
All three apply to strangers.
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Depends on how cute her butt is. And if you have a Platinum American Express card.
antonioio · 70-79, M
the woman ♥
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I know I used to, back in the day when I did that sort of thing.
jarrod73 · 51-55, M
Woman
Women
M00ed · F
Women
alongalone · M
I think men nowadays are far more love starved so them
Areebah · 46-50, F
Women
Fertilization · 36-40, F
Women, ofcourse.
WillaKissing · 61-69, M
Men fall in lust first then love. So, I would say women being more romantically inclined fall in love first.
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
Women fall in love quicker , men fall in lust .
RedBaron · M
Men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
I do and I am a male so yea female. Thanks
Rpfun78 · 61-69, M
Men fall in lust quicker women fall in love quicker
DancesWithWolves · 56-60, M
I would say Women do now I'm shy so that's why it takes time for me.
ABCDEF7 · M
You want to fall in love because you feel lonely/incomplete. Otherwise you'll not want to be loved by someone.
Northwest · M
Those whose family of origin makes them more susceptible.
I'm so tired of hearing the L word after a few weeks.
mazedona · 22-25, F
I think it depends on the individual; a woman tends to fall more in love with the other person's actions, while men are more instinctive. That's why there are more women who like other women because they don't tend to be judgmental in love.
Adrift · 61-69, F
Read somewhere that men fall in love faster but women fall in love longer.
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
Love n lust.. so confusing
empanadas · 31-35, M
Nowadays men on average
Munumbis · 46-50, M
I don't know but women seem to have more trouble getting over it when it goes wrong or if the man doesn't respond. It seems like they get more involved with it and invest emotionally more or something.
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
I don't know, as "love" gets thrown around like nothing these days. I used to fall in love quickly when I felt safe to open up with someone, but I never feel safe around people anymore so I no longer consider myself a romantic. I think men feel attraction faster.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
That depends on the persons personality not thier gender.
Sapio · 51-55, M
I heard somewhere that women fall first but men fall harder. I wouldn't know personally because I don't feel I have ever fallen in love.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Women, but not with the man as a whole. They fall in love with his money and if he's especially lucky, his dick.
PhantomMagic88 · 41-45, M
Depends on the individual, I would say. I grew up thinking it was women, but as a guy, I noticed in my relationships, I would fall before she would
LordShadowfire · 51-55, M
It depends on the reason. Men fall in lust quite a bit and call it love, and sometimes it actually is. Women fall in love with people who are kind to them.
GoFish ·
i don't presume
Reject · 31-35, M
If I had to guess? Men. It’s a women’s responsibility imposed on her by societal expectations that she is supposed to be choosy and careful with who she takes as a partner. Men are usually just happy to be chosen.
greensnacks · F
Women I assume. We are trained to see potential and accommodate, men are trained to do whatever serves them.
BrandNewMan · 61-69, M
These days .. its increasingly less common that it happens
Too much finger pointing and not enough accountability .. on both sides of it. Its not rocket science, but its being made tricky AF by the toxic attitudes.
Too much finger pointing and not enough accountability .. on both sides of it. Its not rocket science, but its being made tricky AF by the toxic attitudes.
Iwillwait · M
Men
Px4545 · 31-35, M
men
bijouxbroussard · F
People are individuals, so it’s difficult to generalize.












































