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am i wrong for being upset over this??

the guy i had vented abt before came back to me, we were doing really good these last 12 almost 14 days (two weeks) n js today he told me that 4 days ago he accidentally kissed his new female friend. so i had asked him if he could stop being friends with her, bc accidental or not it’s still a kiss?? u shouldn’t stay friends with someone that u kissed while ur dating someone. idk if that’s wrong to think bc he said it was an accident. he told me im being dramatic n he’s not gonna get rid of a good friend he made, that im being stupid for wanting her gone n “i dont wanna see him happy” bc apparently me not wanting him to be friends with ONE person bc they kissed by accident is me not wanting him to have any friends at all. i feel like im spiraling n i haven’t stopped crying over it. i love him so much. i don’t even care abt the kiss anymore i js dont wanna feel crazy for wanting them to stop being friends bc i dont wanna end up losing him to yet ANOTHER person. what if he leaves me for her man. i’m js scared. js idk what to do.
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Here's what you do.

Instead of asking him to choose between you and her, you rise to your feet and you leave him.

He's two weeks in and he's already showing you that you can't trust him. Sure, you can ask him to cut her out of his life... but, what about the next one that he "accidentally" impregnates???
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Yes, you are wrong and you earn this week's 📢High Maintenance Alert.
bowchow · 18-21, F
@MarkPaul if “you get it” you’d idk UNDERSTAND why i’m so upset with him
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@bowchow Well, that part I don't understand. I have explained everything to you in a way YOU can understand you have nothing to be upset about. Instead, you choose drama over happiness. Maybe you don't want to be happy, I don't know. You really should be thanking him (and me) instead of choosing to be "so upset..."
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Offthetop · 51-55, M
She is not the problem. He is a low quality person.
Mudkip · 31-35, M
You don't accidentally kiss someone lol
If he left you for one person he'll leave you for another. Stop being a doormat for him to wipe his feet on when he's done playing with other's
just told you.. for snits and giggles he pashed another girl.

sounds like a wonderful healthy relationship... 🍿
You obviously don't trust him so why do you keep wasting time with him? Save yourself the grief you already know he is going to cause you. Cut your losses cause you already know he is a selfish player and no good for you. Don't waste your love on him. He's not worth it.
bowchow · 18-21, F
@SStarfish if only it were that easy to just let go n forget, if it was i would’ve done that a year ago when he started acting like this. i’ve stayed for so long because i don’t know how to let go of him, the pain n agony i feel when he’s away hurts so much worse than his insults. because he stalks me, and i know he does even when he says he doesn’t bc sometimes when he is away he’ll message me to ask if im okay. to make sure im not off dead or trying to kms bc he knows how bad he hurts me. i stay for the parts that i know are in him but due to his anger issues n bpd, it’s hard for him to show it. i know im stupid for putting up with him despite the fact his kissed another girl, lied to me numerous times, manipulated me, used me, n made me hate myself. but i can’t help but look past it all n see what i know is there through all of that.
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
Ok wait wait... how does someone "accidentally" kiss someone? Like what does that even mean? That's a move that is very intimate and with intention. This dude doesnt sound good for you or for any other woman if y'all are in a committed relationship. Sry i havent even read the rest of your post but damn... that just doesn't even make sense.
Male + female = sex

Friends + male + female = sex
in10RjFox · M
Actually you should have told him not to bring such matters to you. He has found a way to break up with you. These days people are opening up to even sex.. you should have thought.. wtf is a kiss compared to sex ..

You have made your love conditional and now you are suffering.
black4white · 56-60, M
Ok ok so check this he accidentally kissed her … it’s gonna be real interesting when he accidentally effs her then what??

Cut your losses and move on …in all seriousness you only 2 weeks in
so he tested you and now he knows .....

and you know

besides

you have to learn something in life

you cannot control annother person, just yourself
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Well if you want to keep being treated bad then by all means stay in the relationship if you don't then you need to leave
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
Dump the turkey and go find someone worthy of you.
Glassysky · 26-30, M
What kinda kiss ess it
bowchow · 18-21, F
@Glassysky lips
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
How do you accidentally kiss someone? 🤔
bowchow · 18-21, F
@ViciDraco he said his friends pushed them tg
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@bowchow don't be naieve. He was able to decline, he chose not to.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@bowchow That doesn't equate kissing.
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@bowchow lol...thanks for bc
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bowchow · 18-21, F
@Pinkstarburst i love you for this
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