am i wrong for being upset over this??

the guy i had vented abt before came back to me, we were doing really good these last 12 almost 14 days (two weeks) n js today he told me that 4 days ago he accidentally kissed his new female friend. so i had asked him if he could stop being friends with her, bc accidental or not it’s still a kiss?? u shouldn’t stay friends with someone that u kissed while ur dating someone. idk if that’s wrong to think bc he said it was an accident. he told me im being dramatic n he’s not gonna get rid of a good friend he made, that im being stupid for wanting her gone n “i dont wanna see him happy” bc apparently me not wanting him to be friends with ONE person bc they kissed by accident is me not wanting him to have any friends at all. i feel like im spiraling n i haven’t stopped crying over it. i love him so much. i don’t even care abt the kiss anymore i js dont wanna feel crazy for wanting them to stop being friends bc i dont wanna end up losing him to yet ANOTHER person. what if he leaves me for her man. i’m js scared. js idk what to do.

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YoMomma ·

You obviously don't trust him so why do you keep wasting time with him? Save yourself the grief you already know he is going to cause you. Cut your losses cause you already know he is a selfish player and no good for you. Don't waste your love on him. He's not worth it.

bowchow · 18-21, F

@YoMomma if only it were that easy to just let go n forget, if it was i would’ve done that a year ago when he started acting like this. i’ve stayed for so long because i don’t know how to let go of him, the pain n agony i feel when he’s away hurts so much worse than his insults. because he stalks me, and i know he does even when he says he doesn’t bc sometimes when he is away he’ll message me to ask if im okay. to make sure im not off dead or trying to kms bc he knows how bad he hurts me. i stay for the parts that i know are in him but due to his anger issues n bpd, it’s hard for him to show it. i know im stupid for putting up with him despite the fact his kissed another girl, lied to me numerous times, manipulated me, used me, n made me hate myself. but i can’t help but look past it all n see what i know is there through all of that.