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I'm losing it

Yesterday I learnt that my gf would sleep in her exe's house after they went clubbing together. First of all, I'm not a jealous person overall I mean I gave her the freedom to do whatever she wanted with whoever she wanted but when I heard that she would sleep in his house I felt truly sad and blocked her immediately cause I couldn't hear any more I need help what should I do now?
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
If you told her to do whatever she wanted to and with whomever she wanted to then I guess you have nothing to complain about. You made it sound like you wanted an open relationship or something. If you care about her and she goes clubbing with her ex, I would say a bit of jealousy and caution is in place.
@CrazyMusicLover
If you told her to do whatever she wanted to and with whomever she wanted to then I guess you have nothing to complain about.

EXACTLY....
Aysel · F
Open communication, tell her how you feel when she does this, and then try to set some boundaries. “It isn't unreasonable to set boundaries." If you can't come to an agreement on these boundaries, you may have to end your relationship.
Iwillwait · M
You did what you did, move on.
Blondily · F
So this isn't a real relationship in the flesh because you wrote that you blocked her.
Hmm online romances are tricky enough and since she still spends time with her ex and spends the night sounds fishy to me.
I suggest you stop the online romance and find someone offline. 😏
Beautyinbroken · 36-40, F
Just because she slept over doesnt mean she slept with him i know thats hard for some of yall to believe but anyways you should tell her how you feel and if she doesn't respect it then let her go💛🌻
Beautyinbroken · 36-40, F
@OrionInTheNightyou can thumbs down my reply all u want but me personally have been friends with my ex whose also the father of my twins we have known each other for 25 yrs and even tho we are not together i could sleep over at his house or vise versa and not sleep with each other just because its a ex doesnt mean yall cant be around each other without fucking period
It’s okay to tell her what you’re uncomfortable with her doing. And if she’s okay with making you uncomfortable after setting reasonable boundaries like this, Then she doesn’t care about you.

And I know you’re not the jealous type and trust her.

But you’ll be shocked at how deceiving people can be. I know you only trust her because you wouldn’t do anything to hurt her if it was you. But not everyone thinks like you.



Yeah I don’t like your gf lol



Stand upppp, stand up.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
That's a painful one my friend .
I be climbing the walls if that happened .
I stayed in a relationship and went half way across the world to sort out a relationship that I knew she cheated on me but I blocked it out cause at the time it was very painful.
I got a breakdown from it after she left .
I have no advise to give to stay in relationships but I do have plenty of advise about the pains of break ups .
That's why it's important to have clear communication
smiler2012 · 61-69
@Kwtsos you have my sympathy you say she has freedom to come and go as she pleases that is fair enough . i can understand your alarm in a waystaying at he ex it is only suspicions you have there was more too this than meets the eye . if you are giving her the freedom you suggest have you got trust issues do you think
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Move on with your life.
InHeaven · F
You “ gave the freedom to do what she wants with whoever she wants” 🤔🤔🤔🤔 and that’s exactly what she did lol …. and then you block her🤔🤔 Anyway, thats still his girlfriend if she is with him. Seems to me like. Sorry 🤷‍♀
Sounds like you already made your decision. Move forward, don't look back
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hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
Do you want a girlfriend because the one you had wasn't a friend.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
That is SO disrespectful! Her, not you.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
"I gave her the freedom" 🤣🤣🤣
Ramrod · 46-50, M
[media=https://youtu.be/MEwSAvvbzJ4] Take Bluto's advice. :)
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