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I am so angry

I have been talking to someone on here for month , pouring my heart to them , telling them almoat everything about myself to the point of almost feeling a romantic connection only to find out today that they are just a guy pretending to be a woman … why do people do that ?
It can really mess people up ! Something’s aren’t meant to be played with !
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dareme · 36-40, MVIP
I'm really sorry it has happened to you.
If you don't mind, I want to share my experience, so you don't feel lonely in this.

2012, EP.
On EP people were creating EP-spouses, and I didn't miss the game.
So, I had an EP-husband named Kyle. Fast forward to 18/12/2012, some EP friends/people told me that Kyle had died irl in a car crash, and started sharing posts like RIP Kyle etc...
Okay, you can imagine how I felt... at some point I wanted to die too. I kept his profile picture in my laptop as a memory.
Some years later, just outta curiosity I reverse-searched his photo on Google: it was a male model, and of course his name wasn't even Kyle!
I still don't know why people played that prank on me, and since then... well, I don't look for anything like that again. I'm actually married irl and not looking for dating here.

I hope my experience helps you a little bit... and I hope you'll be okay soon.
Julien · 36-40, M
@dareme thank you
Im sorry this happened to you
A sad and unfortunate part of social media and being online. Have to be extremely careful about sharing personal information. Big part of the reason I rarely PM anymore.
Younameit · F
Sorry to hear that. That’s why I’m so against catfish accounts. Mostly the ones that interact with people like that. Gotta say that if a woman here is wayyyy too flirty and overly friendly, chances are they’re not really a woman. Not always the case, but happens a lot.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Aww never trust anyone until you know for sure. Just use this place as somewhere to have fun. Sorry this happened to you 😔
Julien · 36-40, M
@PatientlyWaiting25 I don’t treat this place like tinder or something , it happened « naturally « and over time . But it will be a lesson for me for sure
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@Julien wonder what he was trying to get out of it. Was he trying to get money from you do you think?
Julien · 36-40, M
@PatientlyWaiting25 I doubt it … some sort of weird fetish maybe …
GerOttman · 70-79, M
Well first off, it's their problem not yours. There's a stink of loneliness and isolation that clings to certain activities. Someone is telling you that they are broken somehow. How you choose to respond will determine who you are.
Miram · 31-35, F
You message me who they are. People should not be allowed to keep their accounts without verification after they have lead others on.

It would keep this place cleaner.
Wiseacre · F
That’s precisely why I never get involved w ppl on social media, at least never emotionally. Let this be a lesion!
Lilymoon · F
Yikes. Sorry to hear, sometimes you have to learn the hard way:/
romell · 51-55, M
Bro how come you let him get into you so bad control and balance is a must on social media
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Julien · 36-40, M
@minxy im usually wiser , just been through a rough patch , maybe I wanted to believe to hard :(
minxy · 51-55, F
@Julien I totally get it, a rough patch can have you grasping onto anything that may ease your mind for a while, it clouds your mind into trying to find anything to keep your head above water.
PeasPottage · 36-40, M
ah that blows
Iwillwait · M
You mustn't do that. This is virtual, and virtual is not real. Nothing is real.
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Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Happens far to often
Name and shame!
Julien · 36-40, M
@Adeptlinguist I’ll be the bigger person , they know who they are
@Julien But you can protect others!
EmpaEmpa · 46-50, M
1490wayb · 56-60, M
they must be a helluva an actor
class · F
No one is real. Forget it.
GuidanceCounselor · 56-60, M
Should be allowed to sue for emotional distress
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Because some people have messed up minds and are less than zero.
Its social media as usual.
Just forget about it and move on to bigger and better things.
Julien · 36-40, M
@Zonuss thanks
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