What's the deal with younger men claiming older women (60+) can be attractive?

There are many many reasons and most of them to do with getting or hoping to get fun and sexual advantage for themselves..

I am not going to be able to do justice to the subject here as I don't want to type reams so please excuse the brevity

1 reason is the perception younger men have that older women are desperate - they believe that older women don't get much male attention and this makes them easy pickings
2 is that they believe they are doing the woman a favour and that she will be soooo flattered she will easily agree to sexual favours
3) is the idea younger men have that THEY are ultra hot compared to the older woman so there's power in that, again the lady might well feel she has to give more to please this self-proclaimed hot guy
4) the younger guy has the perception that older women, (perhaps because of their perceived desperation) are happy to give sex/favours without expecting to date, be taken out etc.. therefore easy sexual favours with little effort on the guys part..
5) the younger guy has the perception (not necessarily erroneously) that older women are more relaxed in bed, more experienced - some guys like the idea of being 'taught' while benefitting from free sex etc
6) Again buying into the perception of desperation and experience - younger men can perceive that older women are more willing to do wilder things in bed.
7) Some younger, (and older! ) men can buy into the idea that generally speaking older women tend to be more submissive when it comes to men, generally we were taught to be nurturing, caring, and to please men.. that can be a bonus if there's a perception that older women will be more manipulatable, more giving, less likely to say no, less assertive and perhaps (feeling self-conscious about their age) more likely to say yes

Of course that's not to say that some younger men don't genuinely have a thing for much older women.. some do.. but by far the vast majority have no idea how many young guys pester older women and are looking to get pics/sextalk or something else sexual from the older woman based on the perceptions above

Why should they have to defend finding older women attractive ?
If someone approaches you and you don’t trust their motives, don’t date them. My friend (my age) is dating a 40 year old. He clearly finds her attractive—as do many men, actually.
Nobody questions women that closely when they find older men attractive. If he’s much older, it’s assumed he has money, but other than that...

Of course older women can be attractive ... and plenty are. You're not making any sense

I have a family member over 70 and she's still gorgeous.

If I could have any woman in the world it would be Helen Mirren. And I will fight anyone who says that woman isn't drop dead gorgeous

There are so many women over 60 that are beautiful, but usually young men want them for their experience....

when they are older enough to be there mother cannot explain the feeling or what goes through other peoples head and how they think i suppose 🤷‍♂️

My friend is seven years older than me an i am 62. I don't notice the age. We eat together and most other things. I have another friend who is my age and has lost her teeth. We talk often. She luves an hour away. She was my first love. I don't see the age. She's still the new girl sitting behind me in english class and next to me on the bus.

So, are you saying all ladies past 60 are ugly and time to put them out to pasture

I knew a young man who kept insisting on a relationship with an older woman 20 years older!!!

He was handsome but had been rejected by women his age.... so it might be a matter of finding someone who cares mutually for you. I can handle a 10 year difference. But unless he’s over 50 and I’m 70, I don’t think so. Lol. And if I’m 70 and he wants me, it’s the money he’s after. Although my mom is 85 and I think she’s the prettiest of all!

That’s a very good question. Haha is good I will say

Hmmmmmm

Damn, hartfire. I am gorgeous I am told. I am. What's the beef? There are some stunning women over 60. I take great care of myself. Active. Healthy. Busy. People are drawn to me. My energy. My movement. You sound pissed or depressed. What happened?

Too old for me but I would date a women in her 40's anytime

I like people my own age. We have shared experiences.

Is it all about sex, I think not.

I don’t know! Haha honestly I don’t have an answer. Somtimes, some weird people are willing to bet everyone on you.. just say hello? 🤷🏽‍♂️

I think they are crazy, what do you think?

All vaginas are beautiful.

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I understand exactly what you are saying. First off there are a very few young men that do find over 60 attractive but most of these are into fetish. I personally find older women very pretty but obviously in a different way than a smoking hot 21 year old.
I get what you are asking.

No I do not believe that most young men would want sex with over 60 woman. People online say many things for various reasons. Becareful.
Take care.