Questioning I’ve struggled with have being sexually attracted to both sexes. As a man, the...

biandlargeny · 56-60, M

There is no binary for sexual attraction. Its a spectrum. Many men reach a similar point as we age. Sone choose to explore some choose to stick with the familiar. Either choice is ok for you.

I went thru the same decision in my 30s and spent several years exploring.

I am bisexual, probably have been for longer than i think but it took years of exploring to be comfortable.

Hope this helps. Pm me if you want to chat

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

You have to do whatever makes you comfortable. If you are curious. Meet someone but be upfront. Just tell them this is something that I've been thinking about and I just want to go with the flow. If you are with the right person things will just flow naturally.

AbstractWave · 61-69, M

It has been a struggle and comes and goes. If you can find someone you’re comfortable with to try things out with it can really be helpful. Go slowly without pressure it can feel quite natural.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

I've had thoughts I could be bi-sexual because I have so much difficultly dealing with sexual attraction to women and have always wanted to work out how to explore sexuality with couples, but I feel I'm just 'broadly' sexual meaning I can't get attracted to sexuality as a physical thing. I just can't approach (or generally interact with) women I find attractive as it triggers 'fight or flight' response. Also as a single man, the couples thing is never going to happen as I'm not a 'Chad' type, and I'd never know how to even start figuring out if I'm attracted to guys.

I'm 57, single 8 yrs, had two relationships with women, never been married.

BBTXK · 56-60, M

I understand you might feel conflicted and have a need to come to terms with your desires. I had two marriages. While I can’t complain and say the sex wasn’t good, it was fulfilling because kink, and threesomes, or foursomes we’re the norm. It was exciting with her girlfriend there, even when I was getting pegged, but there was something missing.
That missing piece dropped into place the first time I touched another man’s cock and sucked him.
Take it slow, talk about what you want, be honest, and jump in with both feet. The water’s fine!