Questioning

I’ve struggled with have being sexually attracted to both sexes. As a man, the female part has always felt easy. Being, and finally admitting, to myself, I have sexual urges for an encounter with a man has been a lot harder to accept.
I’m not saying I’m ready to engage in it, but the thought of it is very tempting. Is or has this been a struggle for any of you?

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

You have to do whatever makes you comfortable. If you are curious. Meet someone but be upfront. Just tell them this is something that I've been thinking about and I just want to go with the flow. If you are with the right person things will just flow naturally.

AbstractWave · 61-69, M

It has been a struggle and comes and goes. If you can find someone you’re comfortable with to try things out with it can really be helpful. Go slowly without pressure it can feel quite natural.

BBTXK · 56-60, M

I understand you might feel conflicted and have a need to come to terms with your desires. I had two marriages. While I can’t complain and say the sex wasn’t good, it was fulfilling because kink, and threesomes, or foursomes we’re the norm. It was exciting with her girlfriend there, even when I was getting pegged, but there was something missing.
That missing piece dropped into place the first time I touched another man’s cock and sucked him.
Take it slow, talk about what you want, be honest, and jump in with both feet. The water’s fine!

Peter1985 · 36-40, M

Me too

2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M

Its tough be cautious but open

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

Your call
If you have an itch scratch it!
Don’t have regrets

valobasa4ever · F

“If we keep doing what we are doing, we’re going to keep getting what we’re getting.”

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