Questioning

I’ve struggled with have being sexually attracted to both sexes. As a man, the female part has always felt easy. Being, and finally admitting, to myself, I have sexual urges for an encounter with a man has been a lot harder to accept.
I’m not saying I’m ready to engage in it, but the thought of it is very tempting. Is or has this been a struggle for any of you?

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

I've had thoughts I could be bi-sexual because I have so much difficultly dealing with sexual attraction to women and have always wanted to work out how to explore sexuality with couples, but I feel I'm just 'broadly' sexual meaning I can't get attracted to sexuality as a physical thing. I just can't approach (or generally interact with) women I find attractive as it triggers 'fight or flight' response. Also as a single man, the couples thing is never going to happen as I'm not a 'Chad' type, and I'd never know how to even start figuring out if I'm attracted to guys.

I'm 57, single 8 yrs, had two relationships with women, never been married.