Questioning

I’ve struggled with have being sexually attracted to both sexes. As a man, the female part has always felt easy. Being, and finally admitting, to myself, I have sexual urges for an encounter with a man has been a lot harder to accept.
I’m not saying I’m ready to engage in it, but the thought of it is very tempting. Is or has this been a struggle for any of you?

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biandlargeny · 56-60, M

There is no binary for sexual attraction. Its a spectrum. Many men reach a similar point as we age. Sone choose to explore some choose to stick with the familiar. Either choice is ok for you.

I went thru the same decision in my 30s and spent several years exploring.

I am bisexual, probably have been for longer than i think but it took years of exploring to be comfortable.

Hope this helps. Pm me if you want to chat