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Guys what would you do if your wife...

Poll - Total Votes: 17
Forgive Her
Get Angry At Her
Get Over It
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Intentionally got pregnant for you without talking to you first?

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Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Beatbox34 Awww so cute 😀

TexChik · F
As a wife I wouldn’t do that . If I were the husband I would be very angry.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@TexChik What if you so badly wanted a baby and he tells you he's done with that
TexChik · F
@Lichocolati it’s not worth ruining a marriage over
BlueVeins · 22-25
Plan A: Divorce, sue for custody, put the child up for adoption. I'm not cut out to be a father and no child deserves to be raised by such a manipulative and sleazy woman.

Plan B: Suicide, since abdicating parenthood iunder these circumstances is neither fully legal nor socially acceptable.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@BlueVeins Kids are a blessing doesn't matter how they came to be. They're innocent and only want to be loved
BlueVeins · 22-25
@Lichocolati they would be better loved by someone else.
4meAndyou · F
I found out AFTER we were married that the 3rd ex did not want children. His mother and sister both actively encouraged me to get pregnant without his permission, but I am very glad I did not. I would not want to bring any part of that DNA into the world.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@4meAndyou How in the world did you only find out after getting married? Did he lie to you?
4meAndyou · F
@REMsleep No, we just never discussed it... I assumed that once we were married we would have children...instead....once we were married he told me he didn't want them...
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou That's the thing about making assumptions. But then again when you're in love it becomes difficult to think rationally. The mind somehow starts working in sync with the heart when things start getting difficult. I'm sorry you had to endure abuse. It's the worst thing ever 😭
bowman81 · M
That would be an awful breach of trust. It would take a lot of work to overcome it, if I could at all.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@bowman81 So true
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
None of the above
I’d be happy and excited
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@GJOFJ3 It takes maturity to respond this way 😀
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@Lichocolati. Thanks We would have loved to have more children
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@GJOFJ3 For sure. Babies are just too cute...when they're not crying 😅
deadgerbil · 26-30
I'd get a recording of her admitting to it, etc to prove my case and divorce her. That's pretty messed up lol
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REMsleep · 41-45, F
@BlueVeins I never said that I blamed people for having these types of emotions thats why I prefaced my opinion with the word "personally" meaning for me or to my personal way of thinking its stupid.
The part that I am blaming the mother in question for is saying hurtful things to her child just because he was the product of rape. There is no excuse. And I disagreed with you that it would be acting or impossible not to display negative actions towards the child or negative visible emotions.
And again I think it is stupid to carry this blame towards an innocent person. I don't care if my entire family was murdered in a brutal rape session that left me disfigured for life. I could never look at my baby with shame or blame.
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SW-User
I know someone that did that...not cool
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@SW-User I agree. How did they deal with. It
SW-User
@Lichocolati they didn't have a choice but to make the best out of it ...but I think it was a shitty thing to do it was out of pure selfishness
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@SW-User We all have selfish moments
eyeno · M
True story....it happened.

I was purturbed that she should have talked to me first !!
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@eyeno I hate breakups. It's the reason why I intend to stay single for a long while
eyeno · M
@Lichocolati the truth is....,
Many a time its not about finding the right one, its about being the right one.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@eyeno That's deep 😅
If it doesn’t work out I’m still going to appreciate that I get to be a father. But unfortunately that’s impossible for me due to the single dose of the fauchi ouchie.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@AwakeningConfession221122 What is fauchi ouchie
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
Oster1 · M
I would see that, as one of the examples, of mistrust, within a relationship. The word, 'intentionally', said it all.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Oster1 But really why would you trust a human being when they're full of error.
Wol62 · 51-55, M
It be so happy and thank her.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Wol62 Guess you a forgiving guy ☺
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@Lichocolati Thanks, you are a very kind person and I was lucky.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Wol62 Are you forgiving in some instances? I used to hold grudges.
Thank you God I don't burden myself anymore
Barny52 · 56-60, M
Would be upset as i had the snip 30yrs ago !!
Barny52 · 56-60, M
@Lichocolati vasectomy so you fire blanks
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Barny52 Is it painful?
Barny52 · 56-60, M
@Lichocolati it’s was uncomfortable while doc cut the tubes then very bruised for a couple of weeks then you wouldn’t know it had been done
Fluffybull · F
Have just asked my hubby, he said he'd get over it. ☺️
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Fluffybull he must be madly in love with you. How long have y'all been together ☺
Fluffybull · F
@Lichocolati 6 years 🤗
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
How does this happen? Poke holes in condoms?
@Tastyfrzz I know a guy who did that to get his wife pregnant again.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Tastyfrzz The girl would claim to be on birth control when she's not
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Knew a couple years ago; the husband did NOT want children and the wife had agreed. She then secretly went off the pill, got pregnant, and told him. He stayed with her through the pregnancy, made sure she and the baby were safe and healthy, then packed up and left.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@ChipmunkErnie I sure hope he took care of the baby when it was born
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@Lichocolati He paid the money, but started a new life after what he saw as a betrayal. But that raises the question, why should he pay when he was tricked and lied to?
SW-User
I'd be shocked but probably mostly happy.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
Dear Wife and I never used birth control so......
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@hippyjoe1955 What did the women in the past say 500 years from now do to keep from convincing?
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
@Lichocolati I will leave that to your imagination.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@hippyjoe1955 Haha I'm blank 😂
Lostpoet · M
Get over it why would you get married if you don't want children?
deadgerbil · 26-30
@Lostpoet what if one partner doesn't want to have kids due to financial, etc issues present at that time and the other person goes ahead and lies about the integrity of a condom, birth control, etc to achieve a pregnancy?
Lostpoet · M
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Lostpoet I want love and marriage but not so much kids with my DNA. I want to adopt.
Budwick · 70-79, M
Apply for Sainthood.
Mrs. Budwick has tubes tied.
I've had a vasectomy.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Budwick How long has it been since you had a vasectomy
Budwick · 70-79, M
@Lichocolati My youngest natural child is 41. So, prolly about 40 years ago.
But, forget about me if you're just looking for a safe lay.
Budwick don't roll like that.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Budwick it's a good thing you don't share your body with just anybody. I think it's self love 🤗
It’s really kind of fucked up.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@JustGoneNow It's hard to walk away when you love someone. Not that I'd know. I've never experienced love like that 😀
@Lichocolati life is all about choices. But when you stay, your choice is that there’s a “we” and it’s not just about you anymore.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@JustGoneNow So true
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
How do u Intentionally got pregnant?
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@smileylovesgaming Not use birth control perhaps. I've never been pregnant 😊
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@Lichocolati I never used birth control. There been studies that show that birth control can lead to breast cancer
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@smileylovesgaming That's not good. Guys should start taking birth control then 😀
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
Surprise her with a little game called Russian roulette
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@rrraksamam I'd be scared if I was the wife and someone said that though I don't know Russian roulette 😅
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
Oh shit, there goes the next 40 years of my life!
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@TheLordOfHell Would you accommodate his wife, kids and probably grandkids too 😅
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
@Lichocolati Haha probably
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@TheLordOfHell That would be a lot 😂

 
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