Plan A: Divorce, sue for custody, put the child up for adoption. I'm not cut out to be a father and no child deserves to be raised by such a manipulative and sleazy woman.
Plan B: Suicide, since abdicating parenthood iunder these circumstances is neither fully legal nor socially acceptable.
I found out AFTER we were married that the 3rd ex did not want children. His mother and sister both actively encouraged me to get pregnant without his permission, but I am very glad I did not. I would not want to bring any part of that DNA into the world.
@REMsleep No, we just never discussed it... I assumed that once we were married we would have children...instead....once we were married he told me he didn't want them...
@4meAndyou That's the thing about making assumptions. But then again when you're in love it becomes difficult to think rationally. The mind somehow starts working in sync with the heart when things start getting difficult. I'm sorry you had to endure abuse. It's the worst thing ever 😭
@BlueVeins I never said that I blamed people for having these types of emotions thats why I prefaced my opinion with the word "personally" meaning for me or to my personal way of thinking its stupid. The part that I am blaming the mother in question for is saying hurtful things to her child just because he was the product of rape. There is no excuse. And I disagreed with you that it would be acting or impossible not to display negative actions towards the child or negative visible emotions. And again I think it is stupid to carry this blame towards an innocent person. I don't care if my entire family was murdered in a brutal rape session that left me disfigured for life. I could never look at my baby with shame or blame.
If it doesn’t work out I’m still going to appreciate that I get to be a father. But unfortunately that’s impossible for me due to the single dose of the fauchi ouchie.
Knew a couple years ago; the husband did NOT want children and the wife had agreed. She then secretly went off the pill, got pregnant, and told him. He stayed with her through the pregnancy, made sure she and the baby were safe and healthy, then packed up and left.
@Lichocolati He paid the money, but started a new life after what he saw as a betrayal. But that raises the question, why should he pay when he was tricked and lied to?
@Lostpoet what if one partner doesn't want to have kids due to financial, etc issues present at that time and the other person goes ahead and lies about the integrity of a condom, birth control, etc to achieve a pregnancy?
@Lichocolati My youngest natural child is 41. So, prolly about 40 years ago. But, forget about me if you're just looking for a safe lay. Budwick don't roll like that.