I found out AFTER we were married that the 3rd ex did not want children. His mother and sister both actively encouraged me to get pregnant without his permission, but I am very glad I did not. I would not want to bring any part of that DNA into the world.
@REMsleep No, we just never discussed it... I assumed that once we were married we would have children...instead....once we were married he told me he didn't want them...
@4meAndyou That's the thing about making assumptions. But then again when you're in love it becomes difficult to think rationally. The mind somehow starts working in sync with the heart when things start getting difficult. I'm sorry you had to endure abuse. It's the worst thing ever 😭