I don't want to be the person I used to be, but the old desires and behaviours still haunt me.

I have been kinky and sexually immoral (some could say evil even) all of my life until a few years ago. I thought that I had left those lusts behind me but they still keep coming back into my life. UGH

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Matt85 · 36-40, M

You could go completely clean for a while, see what that does for you. And I mean completely clean, no masturbation, don't even look at hotness. I've found it helps me, to be this way, to be none-sexual.

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

I've given myself to lust before. I try to not view between moral and immoral (or evil). Furthermore, I believe that's hell's gate, metaphorically speaking, but if it's something you don't want to do anymore, or be as a person, may you find a practice that takes you where you want to be. Nothing like finding yourself doing things you don't want to do.

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thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@TwistedApe Then really the drug has given you all can find from it. You already know you won't get the high you so desire. I stopped myself from becoming addicted to it, I hope butI have alcohol as a sidekick, know the story. I don't want to be a high preacher of any kind, but if you are really having trouble, there are SA (sex anonymous meetings, and they won't ask you to abstain, I like that about their motto, as they recognize it's a real need of people.) You might find help there. Just know you are in a room that you are with people who took to sex like a drug. 🤔 Be wise.

TwistedApe · 51-55, M

@thewindupbirdchronicles I have actually significatly reduced my alchol intake, I only buy drink any on the last Friday of the month. So far it works well.

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@TwistedApe On that one, I'm looking to abstain, and I'm just slowly working myself towards. My indiscretions have mostly been with alcohol. Not gonna detail every little detail there, but I know what sex gives without alcohol, too. On too many levels, from where I was worried about addiction, to the intimacy of sex with a partner. The best I can give you, if you really want to say no, say no.

collin · M

i can relate, i have recovered from hypersexuality yet the memory of it still haunts me. the best thing i try to do is to stop thinking about the sexual thoughts as soon as it happens. if it's too much, try releasing all of your thoughts about it into words. i hope you reach peace soon

TwistedApe · 51-55, M

@collin I thought that I had, but then in came back like a tidal wave.

collin · M

@TwistedApe it's a very hard thing to get over. but i believe you can do it. there will be a way

smiler2012 · 56-60

{@cambam] 🤔basicaly this is your own destiny only you and you alone have control against things you no longer want, be brave have courage and fight those evil urges

Josh1454 · M

There’s nothing wrong with them as long as the other participants are ok with it.

Cherryinbottom

I can relate. Find a partner who will understand and reciprocate .

SW-User

SW does that to people

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