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I'm not catching feelings

Being love sick is something there is no cure for
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@squirtle Hmm.. depends. Love sick is cute though.
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it's deadly... I've realized people are savage when it's not them who's catching feelings
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@squirtle Well they can't feel what you do if they don't feel it. But there is where expectations need to be kept in check. I suppose it is tricky.

Harriet03 · 41-45, F
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
@SW-User Looking? 🤔
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
@Degbeme Thank you "Brad"!!
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Harriet03 😘
I'm starting to.

I've decided to start taking my medicine again, even if it makes me manic, because that is far better than being overwhelmed and paralyzed by anxiety and depression. No matter what my husband says.

I am leaving an abusive relationship, and I have an incredible, supportive boyfriend I thank God for everyday❤

I started going to church again, doing morning devotionals, and exercising too. Along with making healthier food choices.

Today is the first time I feel like it's helping, but it's gotta start somewhere 🤷
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@Elevatorpitches where are you? Call a woman's shelter or a domestic abuse hotline. There are tons of resources and so many people out there who want to help you!
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MasterofNone · 26-30, M
I wondered if I am the only problem in my life because it is well, always about me. My desires, my likes, my dislikes, my survival, my dreams, my needs and I thought what if I was to be impersonal.
MasterofNone · 26-30, M
@SW-User Well I am getting back memories too and I was expecting you to keep pulling my leg, wasn't I ? Sighs LOL I was already ready to surrender I am that bad.
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@MasterofNone Lol, yeah. I think you held me in high regard. 😁🙃

It's nice to see you around anyway. I like the puzzle you are.
MasterofNone · 26-30, M
@SW-User Yeah I obviously did, now don't go floating on a cloud 😛

Thank you !:)
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
I take long hot baths with epsom salts, I meditate, I keep a gratitude journal almost every day, I keep an eye on my thoughts about myself and others, I try to eat well, or at least eat! I'm mindful of the tension in my body and stop to relax when I notice myself tensing.

Even with all this I still have bad days and times when life feels overwhelming. The care of friends is important to get me back on track and believing in myself again when that happens. I'm grateful for what I have and that, I think, is paramount.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@SW-User I buy a sack of it every few months. Gets pretty expensive to buy those little bags. I like to add a good mug full!
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@KuroNeko I usually use Himalayan Salt, also a huge mug worth but Epsom salt has different properties and I've been meaning to try it for a while. I used the fragranced ones a while back and yeah they get expensive.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@SW-User It's supposed to be very good for immune support, as is a hot bath. I have to say I don't suffer with many colds since I've been using it, and I work in a school so I need all the help I can get lol
UndercoverBard · 31-35, M
I fed myself today
JessicaVl · F
@UndercoverBard wow, good boy! 🤣🤣
SW-User
@UndercoverBard Nah, I always thought you'd be greedy like the rest of humans eating daily.
UndercoverBard · 31-35, M
@SW-User No morals anymore
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
Yes, and getting lots of help from my loving wife
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@JoePourMan Amazing!
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More than I used to
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@SW-User Good!!!
exercise, nutrition, avoiding vices such as smoking and alcohol and drugs. regular medical checkups. despite all of this, I am not feeling as healthy as I should. I blame pandemic depression.
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@BiasForAction Pandemic depression has brought down the healthiest of people, especially if you're in Europe or USA.
Dusty101 · F
Yep, quit smoking and started running..
I also take care of myself by not getting closer to people!
I have been dropped like a cold bag of sick too many times!
I'm the running introvert! 🏃‍♀️😉
SW-User
@Dusty101 Aww, lol! Hopefully in time it develops into an open heart with strong boundaries.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Only necessary stuff. I can't show much love to my body because I hate the very essence of it most of the time.
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@CrazyMusicLover I hope you find a way to see your body from a different perspective, one of acceptance and even love.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@SW-User I tried for years. Sometimes it's better, sometimes it's hell. I was thinking about it this morning when I woke up...that if I were a boss and my body my employee, I would be a very shitty boss indeed.
This body might not even want to be taken care of. It is actively destroying itself from inside without my conscious help anyway.
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@CrazyMusicLover Hmm, if you don't love your body, every cell in your body feels it. Imagine the stress that it puts itself under? :)
BozoBoy · 36-40, M
Yes ma’am I certainly am. I polish off a bottle and a half of whiskey a day and that’s not including the case of beer 🍺 I throw down.

I’m a fitness freak
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@BozoBoy 😳
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@MalteseFalconPunch Maybe its okay to let go of where you expected to be and just take care of what is.
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SW-User
Yep, taking caffeine pills. Fit and alert, that's the new me now!! Good to see you back .....:)
SW-User
@SW-User 😁 Fit and alert is good. (If I go away this time for a very long time I will come say bye. Otherwise I will be going out and out and out...often.)❤️
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@SW-User :( I'd appreciate that.
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@SW-User 🤗
summersong · F
Been doing a pretty terrible job of it for the last month but I am trying to figure out how to get back on track.
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@summersong It's good that you're looking for a way.
smiler2012 · 56-60
[@aidolovemostofyourth ] looking out for number one not in a selfish way i do not mean
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@smiler2012 Selfish is good at times.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@SW-User we are all selfish in our own way to get what we want from time to time
lilacs · 41-45, F
I am, though it's been a struggle at times.
SW-User
@lilacs :) Struggle is okay, as long as you don't sink from it and forget to care.
lilacs · 41-45, F
@SW-User I moved back to my hometown last fall and that proved to be the best choice in years
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@lilacs Super. Can only get better from there.
Dlrannie · 31-35, F
Yep- I eat a balanced diet of fresh foods and take plenty of exercise 🙂
SW-User
@Dlrannie Very nice!
Dlrannie · 31-35, F
@SW-User I need to take care of my bod as it’s that that earns me most of my income 🙂
Ingwe · F
logging out now
to go exercise
keeping the legs shapely
SW-User
@Ingwe Shapely legs are very important!
i'm getting better at it. still need to lay off the doughnuts.
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@lovelywarpedlemon Super! The only way to get off these things is going cold turkey.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
*ponders writing naughty comment* ........ oh coffee. 🤤
SW-User
@Degbeme 😅 If naughty is what keeps you fit and fit... cool! Lol
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@SW-User Well it is a form of....... DEG SHUT UP! 🤨😅
Not that much this past week...RL issues.
SW-User
@Vivaci Get back on it soon yeah? *Bossy voice. 🤣
Ok Boss! 🤭😘@SW-User
I water myself regularly
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@Teggy Are you watering yourself enough? Today I found out I almost killed my ZZ plant because I wasnt watering it enough. Watering is a deceptive job.
@SW-User I never thought of this. 🤔 I’ll up the vodka intake per day to stay safe!!

Thank you 🥰
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@Teggy 😳 Lol. You're very welcome.
SirBenedictTheSecond · 22-25, M
I’m taking care of my chest pains.
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@SirBenedictTheSecond Go to the doc?
SirBenedictTheSecond · 22-25, M
@SW-User I did, it’s just bruising.
Yes. Every way I can
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@faithfulhusband Good! :) All personalities?👀
@SW-User I can't speak for them hahaha
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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Getting thinner. Trying to get better too.
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@Beatbox34 Keep that up! :)
I listen to Beethoven's Bagatelle no. 25 in A minor.
JessicaVl · F
I am in autopilot mode right now 🙄
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@JessicaVl ❤️
Nanori · F
Less than I used to 😌
SW-User
@Nanori Why though?
Nanori · F
@SW-User I don't go out as much as I used to sooo
By being present amidst silliness.
SW-User
@sspec A very important skill.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I'm the only one who does.
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@DearAmbellina2113 And that is the most important person to care for you. You.
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If I don’t then who will
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@SW-User Exactly! But even then so many people don't. And its quite sad.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
No. Self-care is bad rn.
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@CountScrofula Sorry about that.
Diesel95 · 36-40, MVIP
Not as much as I should be
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Yes I just had a bible study session
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@MartinTheFirst You feel blessed?
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@SW-User Well closeness to God is a blessing in itself, it brings comfort, security and hope.
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@MartinTheFirst ❤️ Agree.
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Getting up early so that I can take time to think about my day and work out each morning
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@SW-User That is nice.

 
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