l used to overthink it ,but now I just let it go,as it's not worth the upset.
If it's somebody close I might try once or twice to communicate, but after that what can you really do?
Especially, online,as people come and go.

They are tired, busy, or overwhelmed. They’re pushing me away so they don’t have to grieve me. I’m no longer useful to them. Etc etc, you never really know.

I give myself a minute to reflect if I said something I shouldn't have. If I don't see that then I move on without worrying.
Sometimes there's not enough connection.

I wouldn't overthink it. Not to be spiteful but just out of respect.

I just think of it as they weren't interested enough to keep the conversation going, and I don't chase to try and make them stay interested. That's tiring.

I'm just an average joe, so I know I don't have much that's interesting about me.

I think a lot about why, and when it's someone I've had a once close friendship/relationship with, I initiate a conversation once or twice...just in case they weren't just 'dissing' me.

Then, I quietly let them go. I still think about them, though.

Had that happen where I used to work, it bothered me at first but then I considered the source & it was typical of her to do people that way. So I wasted NO more time with it.

I just don't have much time anymore. Also due to experience of conversations taking too long, or it goes the wrong way.

People think that I am not benefitting them. I don't do what they want. They can't accept that I am different. They can influence me with their opinions because I am determined.

I think sometimes people just have more important things going on in their lives, they perhaps don’t dislike you, they’re just busy with other things ☺

I just move on at this point. I've had a lot of people come and go in my life.

I appreciate that people need space sometimes, even from my intense energy. 😌

Hurts doesn’t it? Just being honest…

I overthink it, especially if we were very close.

Let it go... I love the forum you asked this in..😀

@mindstruggle 🤔if this situation is of my making i have upset them i will apologise and say sorry

Eh it depends. But for the most part I’d give it time and see what happens and how I feel

I don’t expect ppl to talk to me all the time, and if they stop altogether, I’m okay with it.

I suspect I probably weirded them out, or they think I am boring which at this point in my life I enjoy the silence

I just let it go.

I can think of lots of reasons that would probably let them off the hook. I'll overthink it and let them go.

It’s happened to many times to count so I just say whatever.

I would wonder why

Spite

Let 'em go...

Spite

Idk depends on who they were..

quietly let them go
so far it's happened to me on here five times

oh no, i embrace the gift

I didn't wear deodorant.

Why worry?
Life is too short.

Their perception that i wronged them.
Had it before
Itll hapoen again.

Ive now learnt to let go - fuck 'em
Im done being responsible for others feelings.

Ive got enough probelms keeping my own feelings in check from reacting to others myself .

Overthink it..

Depends who it is,is it someone in real life or online

It's not hard for me to come up with some possible reason why. 😅

Embarrassment and shame at giving up and throwing one’s life away

...if an imaginary friend stops talking to you, you only have yourself to blame...right?

They finally listened when I said "SHUT UP !"

It happens to me a lot. I'm used to it. I just figure they have a burr up their butt 🫪

Gone both ways