How much fetish is too much fetish?

honestly I've been thinking about this for a little while and are you offending people with it and I have before and I never mean to of course it's harder for me because I have autism and I have a hard time with social cues so put my special interest on it and it makes things a lot more difficult for me and it's something I've been struggling with more online not too much on real life in real life I don't really talk about it too much but just something I need to work on anyway

If I get the sense a woman is open to some sort of fetish I will be a little cautious and if she doesn’t get offended with the hints then I go right in.

That is of course provided the woman is open to any kind of chat like that. Some just want a friend and nothing more.

I usually have an idea from their forums where things might go but I don't usually expect to be talking fetish in the first few exchanges! Having said that, though, I don't spend all my time talking about the weather. Not even in Britain. And not even now...

Gotta break em in gently. Test the waters. See what works and what does. Asking what their hard/soft no's are. Communication will get you far.

always always always tell the kinks and limits up front

then ease into the kinks - and encourage them to incorporate theirs - giving them all they want - means your more likely to get what you want

If a similar age,both should be open to discuss and try,to the fullest I think...Why hold back,short life after all x

It depends how i meet them
If they are from a kink site then we get into it ASAP
if i meet them @ coffee shop I'll move slower

Go slowly and talk about it.

I just go with it. Unless it’s something that I really don’t like

Do what turns you on ...

A intimate exam followed by a few disciplinary measures are harmless enough

Just lay it on them. I don't think you are going to shock anybody here.

You have to see what they are into. What they are looking for and how far they want to go

I have a severe high heel shoe fetish