How much fetish is too much fetish?

I'm talking online here. If you're playing with someone new, do you break them in gently? Test how open they might be? Or do you just roll with it because it turns you on?

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paddles111 · 26-30, M

honestly I've been thinking about this for a little while and are you offending people with it and I have before and I never mean to of course it's harder for me because I have autism and I have a hard time with social cues so put my special interest on it and it makes things a lot more difficult for me and it's something I've been struggling with more online not too much on real life in real life I don't really talk about it too much but just something I need to work on anyway

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@paddles111 being online gives neurotypicals insight into what it's like communicating for autistic people because being able to judge facial expression, body posture and tone of voice etc isn't possible online.

paddles111 · 26-30, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 true