How much fetish is too much fetish?

I'm talking online here. If you're playing with someone new, do you break them in gently? Test how open they might be? Or do you just roll with it because it turns you on?

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JesseInTX · 51-55, M

If I get the sense a woman is open to some sort of fetish I will be a little cautious and if she doesn’t get offended with the hints then I go right in.

That is of course provided the woman is open to any kind of chat like that. Some just want a friend and nothing more.

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@JesseInTX you can usually have a good idea from a person's forums what they like to talk about. I'm always surprised when a guy with nothing sexual on his profile chooses to talk to me.

JesseInTX · 51-55, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 I’ve talked with some women who’ve had chats with guys who have no sexual groups on their profile so they thought the guy was only looking for a friend. Next thing you know it’s “send me nudes” and sending dick pics. Hard to tell with some of the men here

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@JesseInTX that's true.