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Do you give an 8 year old a room for herself or does she share with sibling?? Help

If any moms/dads could help me out, I’m trying to renovate my second room , I wanted to do bunk beds for her to share with my 1 year old son I’d figure I would just giver her the room and share the other bedroom with my 1 year old son. Given the fact my 8 year old will wanted. Her own room so imma do just so.. I’m going to decorate it pretty for her💜
As a former child, I’m going to have to vote for everyone having their own space. its honestly really important to have your “own area”.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
I have a 5 year old boy and a 11 daughter. We live in a 2 bedroom apartment. The kids each have their own room. My daughter has sensory issues and there is now way they can share a room. My boy is a tiny tornado lol.

So that leaves me sleeping on the couch.

I don't think a 8 year old and a baby should share a room if it can be avoided. They baby will probably wake her up a few times a night
If you have a room to spare then I would say give the 8 year old her own room.

Btw, parenting is not my strong suit.
Disgustedman · 61-69, M
Idk, a baby crying and older physically stronger kid not wanting to hear crying doesn't sound like a good idea.
Disgustedman · 61-69, M
@Catzgano the exception doesn't change the fact that the older child may not like some baby crying at 3:00 or 4:00 in the morning.
Fluffybull · F
@Disgustedman Exactly. The fact that somebody "else did it" doesn't make it right.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Disgustedman *most* one year olds sleep through the night
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
All my kids have their own rooms
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
If possible, I would give every child their own room. Of course that is not always the reality.
Girl and boy sharing a room probably isn't a great idea.
Convivial · 26-30, F
She wants her privacy... Not a bad thing at her age
SW-User
Do you have privacy for yourself or are there only two rooms? I think the children should share and adults should have the room to themselves if there are only two rooms. When they get older, you could maybe divide the room with a curtain so each has their own space.
Fluffybull · F
Give her a room to herself. Unfair to expect an 8 year old to share with a 1 year old. She didn't decide to add to the family, you did.
WonderGirl · 41-45
I am an only child and I have had my own room for as long as I can remember. It was the best.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
If you do that what will you do in 2 to 3 years when son needs space?
Applepiedom · 56-60, M
Alone, especially if sibling is opposite sex
Catzgano · 31-35, F
At that age sharing isn’t a big deal but once older…
AlyAngel · F
She should have her own space.
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
My 7 year old will have a room to himself after we finish the basement this summer. My daughter will eventually as well but at 5 I don't want to move her down there yet.
Not all kids are emotionally independent at the mentioned stage.
You'd know your child better.
tiggerandariel13 · 41-45, MVIP
I have a 9-year-old daughter she has her own she shared it with her 6 year old sister
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Depends, on how many bedrooms you have in your house
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
7 year age difference and different sexes I'd say give her own room
dale74 · M
She has her own room But she's also an only child
if you got the rooms.. spread em out...
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