My father is dyingI’m not sure how I feel about this. I’m going to miss the man, but he wasn’t and still isn’t, very nice to me. He’s not been very present in my life, and thinks that if he throws enough money at therapy and drugs that our relationship will get...See More »
You ever feel like in this increasingly digital world that we forgot how to connect with people in our waking lives?Or maybe we compare the friendships we had as kids to the complicated ones of adulthood, feeling like there's always a space between you that you can't quite place?. Perhaps it's intimacy we chase and crave?. Why we seek it through relationships...See More »
I was trying to set a boundaryI’m not the sort of person you “kill loneliness” with. “Do you even genuinely enjoy my company?” I asked. I’m just the person reached out to when someone is feeling low and desperately lonely. And I want to do what I can to help. But it hit me that...See More »
You deserve someone who treats you as wonderfully as you treat themSomeone who gives you everything you need and want in a loving relationship. Someone who accepts your weird, quirky, sappy, silly self. Someone who adds positivity and joy to your life, and would never take away. Someone who matches your devotion to...See More »
Also: drawing healthy boundaries.And different sort of boundaries for different circles. And hence, identifying circles. What are different common and useful categories of social circles? How do I create and put people in specified circles? How to define boundaries for each circle...See More »
She doesn't look as old as I do because she has an amazing loving husband and she's rich andShe hasn't had to work a day in her life. Dude. Like wow this is the best. She's so blessed.😊 Esp when it came to love.
How has your relationship changed you?I'm less harsh on myself or others. No longer bitter or resentful. Kinda crazy what a good relationship can do for a person.
Being a loving person is becoming intolerable.My family is dead, I need something real and people just do not even care if they bullshit you and hurt your feelings. I don’t understand.
I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving RelationshipI really hope I have that special someone one day. I am not looking or anything, but I will have that special someone again someday. I want to be able to have a healthy, loving relationship. I know relationships have conflicts so yeah. I haven't...See More »
I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving RelationshipI hope some day to find someone who will love and respect me ❤️ I never dated I don’t know how to I don’t want to ask anyone out I want to wait til they ask me Am I wrong for this?
I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving RelationshipWe usually tell ppl to leave an abusive relationship, however we need to tell them how to do so. I'm afriad to leave mine as im afraid my child grows up wo a father figure, I am holding on to hope that my bf will change, Im afraid I'll be cutting off...See More »
I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving RelationshipI was on a break in my relationship a few days before. Today I happened to meet my fiance and it broke my heart to see him in a terrible state. His current job was stressing him, his job applications were rejected by other companies and his pay was...See More »
I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving RelationshipMy first only last for 3 months but it didn't last long. Let's just say we both decided it was best to break up. That was almost 8 years ago. Is that weird? I mean I want another relationship but I'm not mature enough for a committed relationship and...See More »
I Get Drawn Into Unhealthy Relationships Keep in mind when people give you a gift that you are not obligated to give a gift back. Just know that they wish in time that you return the favor. You are thinking about them too. It is the same with visiting the person as well. Not just 1 sided....See More »
I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving RelationshipMy bf went to lie down in the other room, and it’s only 7:30 PM. Sometimes he does that. I’ve never liked it. I always worry that something is really wrong. (And he’s been doing this for years; he did it before our trouble started - so this is not...See More »