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You ever feel like in this increasingly digital world that we forgot how to connect with people in our waking lives?

Or maybe we compare the friendships we had as kids to the complicated ones of adulthood, feeling like there's always a space between you that you can't quite place?.

Perhaps it's intimacy we chase and crave?. Why we seek it through relationships because we want to be understood and be in a flow with somebody else.

Back then it was pokemon in a tent and stick fights, now it's meeting for lunch and not seeing them again for maybe a month or 2, or even years.

I think it's consistency and intimacy we want for in that pairing. True familiarity
It's funny to blame the phones and devices. We have to ignore the disconnect that privatized housing and the car culture isn't helping.
But let's not pretend we're troubled and trying to solve a thing.
@Mordechai communists understand. We are always telling people that we must build communities that may not exclude people - first. Not after work as a charity. And you kill us in return. Aloha! We lost and peaceful life was never even likely. Salutations to the killer empire of money. Socialism never could kill you!
Mordechai · 31-35, M
@Mordechai the society isn't alienated by accident. The winners crushed community. They're openly against the entitlements that make us civil. We understand that, but denial is most effective. Cul de sacs and turns, not community. That's no accident.
mainvane · 61-69, M
Even friends don't answer their phones...letting calls go to voicemail. Can't call practically ANY business/office without getting voicemail..."Your call is very importan to us..." lol
Mordechai · 31-35, M
@mainvane maybe the convenience has taken away the meaning
iamnikki · 31-35, F
[quote]now it's meeting for lunch and not seeing them again for maybe a month or 2, or even years.[/quote]
I really hate this.

I've deleted my social media. There was nothing "social" about it. Just people posting selfies all day, pics of their kids, their food, and dumb memes and celebrity gossip. I don't miss it.
eventtemple123 · 22-25, M
I've tried putting my phone down several times just to find that everyone else my age is screen-addicted and never fully learned how to socialize.
crislitious · 31-35, F
Yeah exactly my thoughts
SnailTeeth · 36-40
Why would I want to spend a day with a person and learn next to nothing, when I could spend a day with a book and learn almost anything?
The only reason I would want to spend time with someone, is if I could bring them comfort. I don't see much point to spending time with people.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
in my experience, it's not intimacy people need, though they may crave that. The biggest lack in the modern world is a sense of purpose. People with purpose can endure pretty much anything, even death.
Adstar · 56-60, M
People generally will pick the easiest path in life.. Meeting people is safer and easier online.. Approaching people in walking life includes higher risk..
RenFur · 70-79, M
I've never connected with anyone while I was sleeping.

 
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