How has your relationship changed you?

I'm less harsh on myself or others. No longer bitter or resentful. Kinda crazy what a good relationship can do for a person.

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TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

Alot of things have came and gone in our relationship. In the beginning (literally last summer), we were workout buddies and focused on eating right, being active on his days off, and being healthy all around. After my second trimester, it all stopped. Now he just jogs by himself. But in other aspects with our relationship, I've noticed i'm more motivated and wanting to educate myself in at least something. I used to not read much books but I see him having books around him and now i've been reading from his books every day. I wanna be able to be focused in on working hard and having an occupation and be skilled in something like him.

Juvia · 18-21, F

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart You guys seem like you bring out the better parts of eachother at least. A partner that makes you want to better yourself is a good sign.☺️

SheCallsMeCrushDaddy · M

my current relationship has changed me for the better. its great to have someone who clicks with me mentally, physically, emotionally, etc. she is my rock....... always knowing all the right things to say and do to make my life complete. shame it took me 50 years to find her.

Juvia · 18-21, F

@SheCallsMeCrushDaddy Maybe it would have been different in a bad way if you met while younger. Sometimes you need to be shaped a certain way before entering a relationship for the relationship to work out.

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InHeaven · F

No relationship and never been in a “good” one no idea what it can do. I only know what bad can do lol

Juvia · 18-21, F

@InHeaven knowing what bad can do is just as good as knowing what good can do.

InHeaven · F

...ya, it makes me not want one@Juvia Thank God

SW-User

I'm changing myself from the inside out to make it better

Juvia · 18-21, F

@SW-User Just make sure you do it because you want to. Not because they want you too. Though I'm sure you already know that but I see so many people who don't know the difference.

WhatLifeIsFor · 41-45, M

yes

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

I'm not sure that it has, apart from the fact that I'm in one. Maybe it's because I've been through a marriage and many long-term relationships and learned quite a bit? Dunno.

That said, it seems like people who are getting laid are a lot mellower. Ha.

Juvia · 18-21, F

@uncalled4 Because they were so long term I would think you probably just don't notice the effects at some point.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@Juvia It's possible. I'd have to ask friends or family. I DO know the last girl brought out some of the worst in me, but that's on me for being with such a nut.

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