Should we talk about marriage on our first date? 🙂

Well, I don't know thing one when it comes to marriage talk: how to prepare for it, when to bring it up, how to start the conversation, etc. But, based on my experience, you should first consider if marriage is something you are willing to follow through on. Most people think it's just a casual topic for conversation and before they know it, they are stuck in a decision they never really wanted in the first place. Just some food for thought.

Sure. Might as well discuss the big things. If we disagree, time not wasted 🤷‍♂


I don't see why bringing up wanting kids or marriage is a bad thing on a first date. It doesn't mean they wanna make a baby or get married immediately, it just means that's what they hope a future relationship goes for.


Why the hell should I date someone who wants kids when I don't want any?

Yeah I can't see why not, it's gone pretty well so far, probably because you've never met me before but I class that as a very positive start.
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It depends on what you're trying to accomplish and how well we click. And if we're talking marriage on the first date then by the third date you ought to be spending a lot of time at my house or me at your Place because you always want to test.Drive the car before buying it

I'm already taken

Depends on how much dates you plan for, before taking final decision.

I would personally like to understand the person first, before I can even think about marriage.

I’m already thinking about us reconnecting after a divorce and 3 kids

If you're married I'd certainly want to know. Better to put that out there before any dating starts, I should think.

My now wife and I did. She brought it up because we had just had unprotected sex. Fun times. No she did not become pregnant that time but we were wed 7 months later. She found the possibility of becoming pregnant extremely exciting.

When my wife was dating before we married, that was a sure way not to get a second date.

Probably. If we disagree on that, there's no real point to continue dating.

In all seriousness, if that’s what your end goal is with dating then yea. Like tell them what your goal in the relationship is

I think that would be a good idea to see where you both stand. 🤣

I thought we talked about it when we first bumped into one another?

Depends on if you actually want a second date

This might be a brilliant exit strategy
I always knew that you're a genius

How about we compromise and talk about sex

I only date with the intention of marriage, so yes 🥰

The last guy I went out with was talking about marriage and retirement 💀

Works every time!!

Yep. You might as well bring the maid of honor and the best man along too!

Can we both wear a wedding dress? 🥹

Funnily, I did.

No lol. I hope it goes well. 😊

No! Let’s just elope and regret the rest of our lives together !! 🥰🥰

Yes! Let's get matching dresses

Yes. Lets talk about it right now

Sure. We could even discuss it now, before our first date.

Probably not if you want a second date .. ;-)

Let’s just have our first date at one of those quickly wedding places.

That's probably a second date conversation.

Why not

Yes y'all aren't getting any younger

Uh well um probably not!

Why wait that long, what color scheme are you thinking?

Yes, the pros, the cons , the inevitable way you'll end up hating one another..

Yes. Have a 5 year plan written in times new roman size 6.

only if you want it to be your first and last date 😂

Your current one, or our future one?

Why stop at marriage when we can make babies right there and then too?

Sure, if you're rich.

Yes. Which two people would you put together in a marriage they could never separate or divorce from, just to torture them? 😗

Might as well eliminate the non serious daters 😅

Nur wenn der Sex wirklich gut ist.