I run to here when I am sad/conflicted/drunk.

If cps were to get called and the child tested positive she would immediately go into foster care to potentially get raped, neglected and abused.

You don’t call cps on family. If you had an issue you should have stated it right then and then and told her that was morally wrong and abusive. And even go as far as to explain to her that the child could get taken away if the state found out she was doing that. If she wasn’t receptive you should reach out to more surrounding family members (especially the grandparent) and express your concern

That's terrible. They could take her child away from her if anyone found out. That is straight-up abuse and reckless.

My question is, do you ever smoke weed yourself? I've gone through stages, myself, hitting both extremes if the spectrum for many years each. I've done it enough to know the way it is beneficial to me. I'm a combat vet with PTSD. It shows in everything I do when I'm not under the influence of marijuana. I'm wound up tighter than a swiss watch and easily triggered. ..it only takes just a single hit of weed to settle me down into what I call civilian status where I have no problem going with the flow. It also does wonders for any chronic pain or discomfort I have in my bones and joints.

As for blowing it into a minor's face or an animal's face, there are better ways. You can decarb it and put it in a pill case. I've done that for one of my dogs as he was dying and wouldn't eat. I did it to induce his appetite. It worked well.

I have a son who was born helplessly disabled. He's so far off the chart, they don't know if he's also autistic, however he was prescribed medication thats also prescribed to autistic people to calm them down. I can't remember what it's called. We took him off of it because it was droning him out . I wanted to grind up some decarbed weed and shove it through his G tube but his mom was against it. Instead we just white knuckle it through all his tantrums due to his sensitivity issues. That choice has, over the years, caused us to lose all our friends and rarely get invites to family functions either..

Since then, I've seen a documentary about a man whose child is autistic and he has been giving him weed to help keep him calm and there are many doctors who agree with him. In hindsight, I wish I would have done the same thing. But I was scared of CPS to be honest with you.

I really think that’s abuse. Just saying. I really hope you are well. Was thinking of you the other day, so although I’m sad that you’re sad. I hope I can help. 🖤

The first one is clearly child abuse. The second one is a relatively mild mistreatment of an animal.

The interesting part about calling CPS is..... the child would then go into foster care....ask any foster kid there is, and they would say it is horrendous. The kids with my neice (besides the smoke) are well fed and taken care of. They are really smart for their ages, too. I don't see any mental issues in them at all. Not even behavioral issues. Including all the "pleases" and "thank yous".

Personally i would consider it child abuse and animal abuse. There are effects of that smoke, especially to children and animals. There is no doubt about that, so no one can even consider it to be normal.

But i am not here to judge, i just hope they come to realize how harmful it can be.

Apart from potentially harmful effect of it on the kid's health, it's also a nasty gesture.

DOCS make things worse..

its a business for them. right or wrong. guilty or not. they will get involved for a slice of that funding ca$h..

I think it is abuse.
I’ve known people who would do that to their dogs.
When my oldest dog was a puppy someone asked if they could do it to her and I said no.
When I wasn’t around they did it anyone, and my dog was not the same.

I have known parents who do this and my grandma used to use whisky with me.

Bad parenting.

Honestly, that shouldn't be done.

I hope you feel better soon too (as in get out of this state)

UGHHHHH
seriously
She's going to harm that child
DO SOMETHING !!!!!

Definitely not an ideal way to calm a 4 year old daughter down. Her mom needs to ask her daughter what’s making her irritated.

Marijuana keeps in cells forever, and it changes the brain, and will create brain damage in kids where the brain has not finished growing yet (25 yrs old)
There is a correlation of Paranoid-Schizophrenia and marijuana smoking so bad idea...

I am more upset by the dangers of second hand smoke on young lungs. Ive known too many people who died from cancers...esp lung cancer.

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Even smoking, even tobacco, in the very presence of a child is a disgrace.

I don't think that's okay. But to each their own I guess

Definitely when I been drankin😝👌🏽

It's wrong. Get well soon.