That kinda news usually gets out somehow.

You can’t realize recognize the first one.

If your gut is telling you something is going on, it usually is though. The fact that he’s called you “delusional” instead of explaining he behavior he’s shown you is a big red flag for me. He’s turning things around to make you doubt yourself instead of owning his actions.

You should start asking yourself if you are worth more than his actions.

Their behaviour changes, easy to spot I think.

Sometimes when they're the flirtatious type but unfortunately you never know until you catch them in action

They are the ones texting when out to dinner with their spouse/ partner, while the other just sits there quietly .

A wise person once said to me, don’t ask a question you don’t want to know the answer too

Change in behavior. Sleep schedule changes. Falling asleep sooner than usual, going to sleep later than usual. Cellphone facing down the table when they’re with you. They start acting way too nice to you or too distant unexpectedly . One of these things alone isn’t a stronger indicator of cheating and they also could mean something else, but if they’re doing more than one of those things all of a sudden, you should be aware.

Depends on the person! With my wife I feel like I knew immediately!

When they conceal small things or tell unnecessary lies. You can feel the trust between you two slipping away.

If you aren’t getting it, someone else is.

Hire a private detective.

Everyone is different, but I would say that it is possible to figure it out without actually catching them in the act. Do keep in mind that just because someone displays certain actions, it doesn't necessarily mean that they're cheating on you although they could possibly be signs.

Anyone is susceptible to temptation. You have to observe your partners satisfaction in an honest and self critical way. Try to please them. Beyond that you have to trust them until they give you reason not too.

If obvious patterns change. But you have to already know a person to see the signs.

I think the important thing is that you feel insecure in the relationship. So whether he is or isn't is secondary.

what makes you think that something is wrong???

When you're a cop and pull over the AP your spouse is cheating with.

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Lack of attention, acting... Unusual....i think it's a gut thing

In my experience, they rarely notice you're cheating if you're good at it and know what you're doing

Behaviour changes, blaming you for things,love bombing.One specific move is to put the phone contact of who you are cheating with as the same sex as yourself.
I got away with cheating on all but one of my boyfriends and even then it was one of his friends that figured it out when they saw sex scratches from my long nails all over another guy's back when I was 14.I never changed my behaviour with boyfriends and in my late teens to early twenties I had up to five boyfriends at the same time.

You're seeing problems where there aren't any.

🤔...........You're very beautiful! Sorry to hear that he is cheating on.

There are apps you can put your phone that will monitor everything your "cheater" is calling, texting, social media, chat apps, gps tracking....all incognito!!

There are signs.

oh yeah. there are signs.

Faithfulness ended when people started fucking around more on the net than in person. Doesn't exactly help alleviate trust issues.

There are usually signs. Usually that person becomes unavailable and doesn't prioritize their time with you. You may also feel that the connection is gone or that the person isn't generally interested in you anymore. That being said... Who is dumb enough to cheat on you? You're absolutely gorgeous. Don't worry, I'm sure you can do so much better. Someone who will cheat on you isn't worth your time.

You can't with 100% certainty say, but there are red flags you can spot that increase the probability of cheating.

{@asoif] 😆a cheater is one cat easy too spot

Not answering texts, not answering phone calls, shows lack of interest, over compliments or flatters you unexpectedly,avoids physical contact, starts dressing up more, comes home smelling really good, changes schedule, accuses you of cheating even though you are not, and participates in little to real communication.

Hickeys on her boob and body were a good clue.

Cheat on you 😏

Their disinterest and unloving behavior