Is my friend even my friend anymore

People lie for many reasons.
Sometimes, it's okay to forgive them and continue the friendship.
Can you talk it out or is this a pattern with him/her?
If it's an ongoing problem or they won't take responsibility for their actions,then you may want to reconsider the friendship.
Of course, if you choose to forgive and continue, doesn't mean you should just accept lying or other disrespectful behavior in future.

It really depends. People do shitty things when they are scared.

That sucks. I know the feeling. Thats life though...

Depends on the lie, why they lied, what you define as a lie. Etc

I mean I told people that I was okay for 2 decades but that was a lie that they all wanted to hear

well, this is a mostly anonymous website so feel free to give more detail about the context and the lie because there is not enough information here for people to give you a useful opinion.

I know how you feel .
The relationship becomes toxic .
You try work it but you can't cause it's broken .
Otherwise the relationship with turn into anxious talking

Friends lie .. people lie .. maybe you are crossing boundaries and he just had to ..

Who cares?

What was the reason to lie?