That awkward moment when you're having a random conversation with your partner with all that playful banter and then suddenly

@Nightwings @SinlessOnslaught I do not like fighting and do not like the word fighting because of my childhood and life career path. Fighting meant hurt and bloodshed and shedding of others blood until you win. Arguing always led to fights, so again I hate the word or anything to do with it.

You made good points that I agree with, but I won't fight my mate or argue with her. I will openly discuss and come to an understanding of each other's heart mind and views. But not fighting or arguing, again my childhood and the career I retired from is listed on my whiteboard under abuse. I won't have it or deal with it.

@WillaKissing I completely understand. I hope you never have to experience those things again. In my first message I intentionally wrote that it is rare, and not impossible, for couples to not fight, because I had a friend back in my home country who was similar to you in this way. She would not fight with anyone under any circumstances, even when her boyfriend cheated on her, she did not raise her voice. I like to think if you ever fall in love again, you will fall in love with such a person. When you think about it, there is never a reason to fights other than letting out frustration, and there are some types of people who naturally don't let out frustration by showing anger.

@Nightwings Thank you