That awkward moment when you're having a random conversation with your partner with all that playful banter and then suddenly

@WillaKissing I think it is rare for couples to never ever fight though. I think what's more important is whether the relationship is worth it.

@Nightwings I do not mind discussions and stating how we feel, and it is okay to disagree and to have differing opinions. No one has to be right or to win!

So, discussions are welcomed. Arguing and fighting is all I had with my ex-wife while married and even after she cheated, and we divorced, and I took over raising the kids on my own Not taking a penny in support from her. No "F" that argue and fighting shit. Had enough to last several lifetimes.

@WillaKissing That sounds very bad. I think maybe the line between argument and fight is different to each individual, like the severity of the fight would be too. I for example learned several years ago that when I thought my husband and I just had a simple disagreement, it was a terrible fight in his eyes. It is very important to communicate such things, because before that, I didn't understand why he stayed angry for so long afterwards. I thought he was being malicious, when in reality he is just more sensitive than me. Now I know the limit, therefore I can respect it. It is very important to respect each other, especially in fights. The fight and argument is OK to me, but they are no excuse to stop respecting the other person.

@Nightwings I wish my family would have this kind of understanding. You are such a good person and wife.

@Nightwings @SinlessOnslaught I do not like fighting and do not like the word fighting because of my childhood and life career path. Fighting meant hurt and bloodshed and shedding of others blood until you win. Arguing always led to fights, so again I hate the word or anything to do with it.

You made good points that I agree with, but I won't fight my mate or argue with her. I will openly discuss and come to an understanding of each other's heart mind and views. But not fighting or arguing, again my childhood and the career I retired from is listed on my whiteboard under abuse. I won't have it or deal with it.

@WillaKissing I completely understand. I hope you never have to experience those things again. In my first message I intentionally wrote that it is rare, and not impossible, for couples to not fight, because I had a friend back in my home country who was similar to you in this way. She would not fight with anyone under any circumstances, even when her boyfriend cheated on her, she did not raise her voice. I like to think if you ever fall in love again, you will fall in love with such a person. When you think about it, there is never a reason to fights other than letting out frustration, and there are some types of people who naturally don't let out frustration by showing anger.

@Nightwings Thank you